Did you know that there are all sorts of health benefits provided by orgasms? Orgasms can aid in boosting the immune system, relieving stress, and even fight insomnia among other things. Of course, they feel great too! Because of this, there’s no surprise that many are looking for ways to have bigger, better orgasms, and more often too.
For this reason, you may be asking why anyone would deny themselves an orgasm on purpose? If having more orgasms are better health and pleasure wise, wouldn’t that make it worse? Actually, orgasm denial can have benefits too, let’s cover some basics.
What is Orgasm Denial?
While you are denying yourself, it isn’t abstinence from all sexy things. There is usually a sexual aspect, such as anticipation which is simply controlled. One common style involves couples allowing one partner to have full control over the other, following their rules All the desires and limits are negotiated, just like with any power exchange activity, where the submissive consents to the rules.
There are two types of orgasm denial: tease and denial and total denial. Short-term or long-term basis can be agreed on.
Tease and Denial
This method consists of the dominant arousing the submissive, but stops prior to orgasm. This can be used as a standalone session where the submissive is denied a certain number of times prior to being allowed to orgasm. It is also known as edging. The tease and denial can be done in a more long-term prior, and 24/7 control over the submissive is not allowed to orgasm, and stops stimulation for hours or even days.
This is a more classic method, also referred to as chastity. Depending on the rules, the submissive may even have to wear a chastity device that makes sure they avoid any sexual activity. Of course, there are couples who simply promise not to have any sexual activity for an allotted amount of time and trust in keeping their word. The dominant is commonly known as the key holder, even if a chastity device is not used.
This is often a long-term method and vary on the sexual activities denied, some may forbid the submissive from all masturbation without permission. Others may only forbid sexual acts for a short time, while others deny for longer periods. Males who are the submissive may wear chastity devices for preventing erections too.
If you are looking for something new to add into your sex life, orgasm denial could be something different that you and your partner can enjoy. The greatest part is you can start out slow, and work your way to a more intense session depending on what you are comfortable with.