Domination.. is it just me who is now imagining a woman covered head to toe in black PVC, stiletto boots, flogger in hand and a dog collar?
Realistically.. I’m not that hardcore yet 😉
I’m not one who likes to be in control when it comes to this. Well, not in the way you think.
I’m all up for the flogger, handcuffs, blindfolds and for someone to take charge.
The confidence is what makes it sexy. The stern voice. The charge.
All you have to do is comply.. or be a bit naughty. But that’s taking the control back, asking to be punished.
You may think domination is about one person being the Dom and the other Submissive. But really, it’s a mix of both. You’re both getting a thrill out of it. You’re both getting what you want.
The dominant one is having no more pleasure than the submissive, although it may appear that way.
Are you confused yet? The sexy Luke Stott wrote me a fabulous post about Control which explains it in a hilarious way.
If you are gonna go dominatrix on someones ass.. You should probably warn them in advance incase they get confused.
Who wears the trousers in your relationship… or rather, who’s holding the whip?