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Lovense Lush and Lovense Lush 2 Review

February 5, 2020 by Vikki Vines

This post is going to cover my review of the Lovense Lush and the Lovense Lush 2. For the most part, such as how they work, what they vibrator is intended for and how to use it is exactly the same.  When there’s a difference between the two products it will be clearly stated.

Why did I try out the Lovense Lush 2?

When it comes to sexual pleasure, there are simply times when us ladies have to get creative. That’s where I find my toy collection to be helpful, especially the Lovense Lush.

No matter if you are single and haven’t found that right person for you yet, or if you are in a relationship and looking to enhance the bedroom fun with your partner or maybe your partner is on a business trip or lives in another location?  My partner was spending a lot of time away due to work but I still wanted to feel a sexual connection with him, I’d heard of remote control vibrators and decided to give one a try and chose the Lovense Lush.

The original Lovense Lush is a toy I really liked but it did have some issues

The biggest issue was the connection issue.  It wasn’t as stable as I’d liked, the connection would drop out every so often and if you want to frustrate a woman, have her get close to orgasming and then have her toy stop working due to a dropped connection.

This is similar to the reaction I would have when the connection would drop out

I recently got to try out the Lovense Lush 2 which is the next generation Lush.  The Lovense Lush 2 has a much better connection and doesn’t drop out like the original Lovense Lush.  That was the biggest problem that needed fixing and it was fixed.  The other improvements were that it’s now more powerful and it can be turned on and off while wearing it whilst before you couldn’t do this due to where the button was positioned.

Lovense Lush 2 improvements on the Lovense Lush

  • Better connection
  • More power
  • You can now turn it off while it’s being worn

The Lovense Lush was a toy I really liked, the Lovense Lush 2 is a toy I love.

 

********  UPDATE – JUNE 2020  ********

Check out available promotions on the official Lovense site.  I’m not sure how long the promotions will last so if you’re interested now would be a good time to buy.

 

Quick Facts about the Lovense Lush and Lush 2

It’s a wearable, internal vibrator designed to stimulate the g-spot via your phone or your partners phone. The thinner part does vibrate a little but it will not stimulate your clitoris enough for an orgasm.  The thinner part is there to stabilize the vibrator inside you and it’s also an antenna.  The other way of using this toy is to use the bulbous part (the actual vibrating part) externally to stimulate your clitoris and it will work very well because it’s a very powerful vibrator.  However, its primary use is as a remote control vibrator for your g-spot.  Toys like this even have a fancy tech title – Teledildonics.

lush

See the pics below to see how it’s worn internally with the antenna not being inserted.

wearable-pic

This toy is designed to be discreet and stay in position better than other wearable vibrators. It can be worn in the bedroom, around the house, even in public like vibrating panties if desired. It really just depends on how naughty you feel like being!

It’s among the strongest remote vibrators on the market.  The Lush is pink, and designed with a curve to hit your G-spot, increasing the pleasure.  Imagine walking around the house, not knowing when your partner will start controlling it, or running errands and trying to hide the emotions or sitting at a cafe together.

public play

At a cafe and having a little public play…

 

The Lush has an extended Bluetooth antenna, which is flexible which means it’s adjustable to fit your anatomy. It is a leader in range of control, but if worn under cloths (i.e. running errands), this reduces the control range and connection strength. Meaning your partner would need to be close by.

The Smartphone app offers increased range control, allowing your partner to control your Lush, worldwide. The app provides a messaging feature which can be used for scheduling sessions, etc.

Lovense Lush

The Lush is created using high-quality silicone that is very comfortable, and almost silent when inserted. This means less worrying about who is hearing it, and more pleasure from the experience.

Now, let’s cover my experience!

Lovense Nora and Max experience

If you are a fan of the Lovense product line like me, you may have the Max and Nora. These are toys for him and her that connect to each other for fun from anywhere, literally. Because they do not have a limited distance, you can use them to have fun anytime, anywhere.  I know how popular the Max and Nora have been so this made investing in the Lush so much easier for me.

The Unpacking of the Lovense Lush 2

I was tracking my package and was waiting for my mailman to ring the door bell and alert me of a package.   The packaging was discreet, it comes in a brown box without any mention of lovense, inside the brown box is another discreet box (that’s right, two discreet boxes), and then inside that there’s the actual product box.  When the product arrived, It was like Christmas came early.

Once removed from the shipping package, I was presented with an elegant white box with the pink Lush branding and product image. It also highlights the main features, including app control for solo play, discreet public playing, and of course long-distance relationships.

After opening the box, I was presented with the Lush, a curved vibrator unlike anything I’ve ordered before. The curve design is to stimulate the G-spot during playtime, but it also had a flexible Bluetooth antenna coming from it that extends past the body to offer the longest control range (unless using the app, then this is not an issue).

The overall shape appeared somewhat strange to me, so it took a little getting used too.

When it comes to size, the insertable length is roughly 3-inches, while girth is 1.4-inches. Where as the antenna is just under 5-inches.

Lush-egg-vibe-size-specifications

Box Included:

  • Lovense Lush 2 (obviously)
  • USB Charging Cable
  • User Manual

Before Using the Lush

First off, prior to using your new Lush you want to wash it to ensure there is no bacteria lingering. To do this, just use hot soapy water. The second step, is making sure it is charged and ready to go by plugging it into a wall adapter or USB port.

This is the first factor where I noticed a difference – It only takes an hour to fully charge, and lasts up to 2 hours of play. That is a faster charge than some of my other toys, and lasts longer too. It gets points here for sure, I can charge while watching Grey’s Anatomy, then…well, fantasize about Mr. Grey’s anatomy.

Tip: The Lush being made with soft, silky silicone for a safe and comfortable experience every time. This means only a water-based lube should be used, because silicone based lubes will cause damage to the material.

Now you are ready to use your new toy. You can use it solo or with your partner. However, if you’re looking to use it over a long distance, both you and your partner need the app installed.

Long Distance Using the App – how it works!

When you want to have fun in a long distance relationship, the first thing you and your partner must do is download and install the app on a smartphone. Once installed, the app provides a simple walkthrough for pairing the app with your Lush and both smartphones.

The app is really easy to use, just check out the below clip for how easy it is to use

When registering the Lush, you will be creating a nickname and password used with connecting your vibrator to the app. Ensure that Bluetooth is on your smartphone. Depending on how technologically inclined you are, it can take a couple minutes, or a bit longer.

Therefore, to setup:

  1. Clean and charge
  2. Download and install app
  3. Follow step by step walkthrough to pair devices – Ensure Bluetooth is active
  4. Control Lush via the phone

Now that your phone has become the pleasure controller thanks to the app, you will be able to use it like a regular remote. To change vibration settings, simply slide or tap the screen. You can also create a custom vibration pattern based on preferences.

Lush can also be used for sound activated vibration, or vibration in sync with music (get that playlist ready). Can you imagine the pulsing and vibrating to your favorite song? Oh, and all the changes and sound activated vibrations are in real-time too!

Feeling spontaneous? The app provides a messaging system that allows partners to schedule and coordinate playtime, or simply tell them to start controlling when ready. It also allows image messaging, so partners can share the experience on either end.

Note: Some may find the app takes some getting used too. But, when it becomes second nature thing can really heat up, no matter the distance!

Here are the different modes of use:

Lush modes

Lush modes

 

To get the app visit the apple store, or google play.  It can also be used with a Windows or Mac enabled computer.

All user guides for Lovense products can be found here.

The most important factor to consider – Performance!

Well, for starters because of the soft silicone material used in the design the initial feeling is soft and smooth. The curve positions nicely on the g-spot, providing great stimulation during use. But, those are just regarding the design. The feeling when used, AMAZING!

While it may look a bit small, it is much stronger when compared to other egg vibes, bullet vibes, or vibrating panties. Overall, the Lush vibrations are strong, providing deep pleasure while being discreet and quiet.

The main purpose of the Lush is to be used as an internal vibrator, while the antenna that extends and will be near your clitoris offers some stimulation to the clitoris the antenna won’t make you orgasm, it’s not meant to, it’s an antenna! If you want clitoris stimulation the Lush can be used externally by using the vibrating part, not the antenna, on your clitoris. This still allows your partner to control the situation, while feeling great.

Even though the Lush provides the longest range of control from any other wearable Bluetooth vibes, I ran into some challenges. The control range while standing is about 10 to 30 feet and if sitting about 5 to 10 feet.  Of course to counter this and have longer range you can use internet control instead of bluetooth.

With regards to the original Lovense Lush, I found that when clothing or other objects hindered the Bluetooth signal, it would disconnect the app from time to time. This got a bit annoying.  If you do decide to try and wear it in public, I recommend playing it out at home first. You want to ensure you are comfortable while walking around with it in. You also want to know how to position it so it remains in place, because it’s hard to re-adjust while in public.

The connection during our public experiment was less than expected. I found that clothes will reduce the Bluetooth’s connection range, but being in direct sight tends to offer a more stable connection. Although, the vibrations are not as strong of course. The Lush is silent enough not to be heard in a crowd. However, in a quiet setting like a library, the chance of being caught increase, between the quiet sounds or the moans.  Overall I loved the concept and the performance.

With regards to the Lovense Lush 2, I didn’t have the same connectivity issues.  I don’t understand the tech behind getting the bluetooth connection to work better, all I know is that it does work better and that’s the most important thing.  It has taken my public play to a whole new level now that I can reliably use the toy in public.

Verdict

  • Great concept
  • Has plenty of power and has given me intense orgasms
  • Can add a lot of spark to your relationship
  • Body-safe materials used

If you are looking for a new toy that gives multiple possibilities, including long-distance play. Then you are going to find that the Lovense Lush is a great go-to. It arrives in a pretty box, and charges quicker than most toys. A single charge can last up to 2 hours, and it’s silent enough to be warn in public without being caught, as long as you don’t moan too loud or use it in a library setting.

This toy can be used solo, but adding a partner to the combination greatly increases the pleasure for both involved.

Price

Considering it’s a fairly high tech toy and is really good quality and performs well the price is really reasonable.

female cheering

Check out available promotions on the official Lovense site. I’m not sure how long the promotions will last so if you’re interested now would be a good time to buy.

 

Lovense actually started up via an Indiegogo campaign.

An alternative to the Lovense Lush 2 is the We-vibe Sync.

High tech sex toys will be more prominent in the future:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a12235527/high-tech-sex-toys/

https://www.cnet.com/pictures/high-tech-sex-toys-vibrators-ai-nsfw/

The High-Tech, High Design World of Sex Toys

Filed Under: G-spot vibrator reviews

Sex Pillow – Sex Wedge Guide

January 20, 2020 by Vikki Vines

Have you tried just about every position that you can think of and even those that you have found on the internet with your partner in bed? Why not take a chance and explore the world of sex pillows which are a type of sex furniture? Sex pillows and sex swings are the most popular type of sex furniture.  A sex pillow will not only make your sex life a bit better and a little more exotic, but it will also add some comfort for both you and your partner.

Let’s face it there are some positions that we do for partners that can be uncomfortable, but with a sex pillow, it can help to relieve some of that pressure and pain in your muscles and joints from the weird positions that you can think of.

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Okay so what is a sex pillow and what does a sex pillow do? It is basically a special type of pillow that was designed for you to use during various sexual positions. They come in all sorts of shapes but the most common shape for a sex pillow is a wedge that’s why a sex pillow can be called a sex wedge as well.  Some people when they think of a sex pillow think of something like this:

 

 

But no, they generally look like this:

sex wedge

sex wedge

Why buy a sex wedge?

Most people never really consider getting a sex pillow until that moment when sex becomes uncomfortable and begins to hurt. It is especially bad for those who have memory foam beds. If you have back pain, these sex pillows are going to be a god send.  Basically, it doesn’t matter if you have mobility issues or you are just looking to spice up your sex life a bit, you certainly will not go wrong when you invest in a good sex pillow.

These products are going to turn all your favorite positions into the best feeling ever as it removes the strain on your:

  • shoulders
  • hips
  • waist
  • back

Not to mention that they can help you to explore more adventurous positions that you have never been able to do and even add more depth and sensation to your already great sex life.

How to use a wedge pillow for sex:
the wheelbarrow

grab and go

home on the range

elevated oral

the push up

the rodeo

the over easy

the over easy

the down low

If the above positions don’t get your heart racing at least a little, nothing will.

 

Sex Pillow – what to consider when buying one

When it comes to choosing a great sex pillow there are a few things that you will want to check out, especially if it is your first time purchasing one. You could get overwhelmed by how many options there are on the market. Don’t freak out, as just look for these factors to help you to find the right type of sex pillow for you and your partner, or just for you as sex pillows also make masturbation quite fun.

sex wedge

sex wedge

Think about the size

Sex pillows can be put into 2 categories: wedges and ramps. Ramps are going to be bigger pieces that were made to support your lower torso and entire back, however you can use them in a variety of ways. Wedges are much smaller sex pillows that are meant to add support to certain areas like raising your butt up to allow your partner to penetrate you much deeper when in missionary position.

Now not all ramps and wedges are going to be the same size. They make some that are so large that they take up a heck of a lot of space on the bed, and there are others that are so small that you can discretely hide them under your bed. It is really up to you to figure out what size you are looking for based on your preferences and needs.

Check out material types

Many sex pillows come with 2 parts: the cover and the foam. You are going to want to pick a pillow that is made with a medical grade foam or a high-quality foam. This helps to ensure that you will have a comfortable and soft pillow that is firm enough to give you plenty of support.

Now the cover, is normally made from microfiber and there are some pillows that will come with velvet or other fabric covers. You will want to pick a fabric that can be easily removed and throw in your washer for easy cleaning. Also look for brands that give you a waterproof liner for your foam. This is perfect as it helps to protect your foam from massage oils, lubricants, various liquids and your own body fluids from ruining the foam. This helps your sex pillow to last much longer.

Check out the design

There are some sex wedges and ramps that have just a slope that is pretty plain, then you have the models that have gentle curves. It is up to you on which one will fit your needs. If you have a decent budget, check out both models to see which one will give you the most pleasure during your sexcapades.

Is it portable?

Let’s be honest, some of us travel a lot so ask yourself are your going to need to bring your sex pillow with you or can you just leave it at home. There are some sex pillows that are way to heavy to carry around and are designed to be used at home only, while there are some that are inflatable and can be placed in your suitcase or purse when you are traveling.

Best Sex Pillows for 2020

Okay! Now that you have most of the basics about sex pillows, let’s get shopping for one. You can explore the list below which are great models that you can use. They are the best options that are on the market right now and are highly rated by those who have purchased and used them.

24 Inch Ramp/Wedge Combo by Liberator

Liberator wedge-ramp combo

Liberator wedge-ramp combo

When it comes to sex pillows, this is the Cadillac of models. There are a lot of reasons that it is called the best. Everyone loves the feelings that come with using this model. It is made from a high-density foam and covered with a microfiber cover and it feels super soft. When you have sex on it, you will notice that the sensations from laying on it and being explored make it much more intense.

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The shape of this sex pillow is certainly something that will give you plenty of options to try out especially if you are planning to use the Kama Sutra as way to get more adventurous. The two pieces can work on their own or together when it is needed. Just let your imagination run wild and enjoy the wild ride that you are going to receive on this pillow.

Benefits of the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo

  • Great for missionary and doggy-style positions
  • Helps make position transitions feel effortless
  • Great for plus-size and differing size lovers
  • Lets you try sex on the floor or off-the-bed
  • Cover has an advanced microfiber fabric that causes less slipping and keeps shapes stuck together
  • Provides angles that make the belly look smaller and the penis look larger

https://www.liberator.com/wedge-ramp-combo.html

https://www.liberator.com/wedge.html

Jaz Positioning Pillow by Liberator

If you are not a really heavy person, and you are looking for a bit of variety in sex, then you will love this product. The Jaz is ranked second in rankings. Just take a look at the design of it and really think of all the things that you could do with it. I bet you just started blushing at all the naughty things that just popped into your head. If not, we can throw some suggestions out there for you.

Liberator Jaz

Liberator Jaz

You can do everything from vanilla missionary to doggy and even make it easier for oral on you or your partner. The oval shape of this wedge is perfect for oral and that means giving and receiving. But let’s face it we are all about receiving than giving. The best part of this pillow, is that you can set it for your height, favorite position and variations. Not to mention the price that really helps to take the cake.

https://www.liberator.com/jaz.html

Sex Pillow for Couples by Toughage

Toughage inflatable sex pillow - cylindrical

Toughage inflatable sex pillow – cylindrical

Are you a big fan of anal sex? Or you are wanting to surprise your partner with it sometime? This pillow is one of the best pillows out there for basically any position that your nasty mind can come up with. But the magic of this pillow really happens when you start thinking about anal sex.

cleaning

It is a specialized wedge-shaped pillow that is made from some high-grade foam that is super easy to clean, and that goes for the cover as well and it is easy to store because of the shape and size. The wedge shape really holds plenty of options for both you and your partner. So, the worries about reaching maximum penetration are now going to be a think of the past with this great sex pillow. Besides using this pillow for sex, you can also use it in your daily life. It doesn’t even look like a sex pillow. You can use it to rest on and even to give you some support when you are reading books in bed. The versatility of this pillow makes it a multipurpose pillow for sex and your home.

https://www.amazon.com/Toughage-Cylindrical-Inflatable-Portable-cylindricals/dp/B00XKJVMI2

PF3101 Inflatable Sex Pillow for Couples by Toughage

Toughage inflatable sex pillow - PF3101

Toughage inflatable sex pillow – PF3101

If you are a traveler and like to have some fun with your partner or someone else, we aren’t judging, this pillow is one of those products that you can pack up and take with you without people ever knowing what it is until it is inflated. This sex pillow has plenty of perks. It is safe and soft for people of all ages. The foam is elastic enough to keep bouncing back the strokes given for a long time. It can also handle plenty of weight. This is one of those pillows that works for just about anyone.

https://www.amazon.com/Toughage-PF3101-Inflatable-Pillow-Couples/dp/B01N1EW6S2

Dame Products Pillo

Another popular option out there is the Pillo by Dame Products.

Also:

  • Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Sex Position Master
  • DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Sex Position Ramp

 

Sex Pillow Wrap Up

Now that you have been through which pillows can rock your world that are on the market right now and you have some information about what to look for, it is up to you to get out there and find the sex pillow of your dreams.

 

 

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Vibrating Panties – The ultimate guide

If you enjoy the danger and thrill associated with public play, vibrating panties are the top of the line method to get your rocks off, just about anywhere! That means with these bad boys, you could be simply sitting in your office, in a waiting room, waiting ​for the bus or walking down the street and no one would ever be suspicious, unless of course you give them something to be curious about by the look on your face!

massive orgasm

Awkward!

When it comes to having fun and sexual pleasure, there are more ways than your ​standard egg vibrator, dildos, etc.  Vibrating panties are becoming more and more popular in the industry, not only are they discreet, it opens up many different potential opportunities for sexual pleasure, excitement and being ​kinky and everyone loves to get their kink on from time to time!

Vibrating underwear doesn't have to be used in public, they can be a part of foreplay, you could be ​reading a book or watching television and your partner could decide to give you a bit of a thrill.  You'll never know when the vibrations will start which is part of the fun. They can also be used as a tool to keep the spark alive in long distance relationships.

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Summary of my hard work!

OptionRating
Fifty Shades Freed
Fifty shades freed
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4.7/5

Awesome clitoris option
The vibrator is curved so will stimulate your clitoris and could provide orgasms in public! Panties are adjustable via lace ribbons so should fit and be comfortable for most. Is excellent quality.
Lelo Lyla 2
Lelo Lyla 2
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4.6/5

Lelo is a company renowned for high end products and the Lyla 2 is no exception.
Lush by Lovense
Lovense Lush
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4.6/5

Best internal option
It feels great and just fits my anatomy perfectly and has strong vibrations. It is an internal vibrator so you're less likely to orgasm but it's still loads of fun.
Hot Date Thong
Hot Date Thong

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4.4/5

Best Value option

If you're looking for an inexpensive option that will work on your clit, this is the one for you! Tie back thong is adjustable so will fit most.
OhMiBod Club Vibe 2 Panty
OhMiBod Club Vibe 2 Panty 2
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4.0/5

Not as good as the options above
Wireless Venus Butterfly
Venus Butterfly
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3.6/5

You get what you pay for
Love Rider Self Pleasurizer
Love Rider Self Pleasurizer 2
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3.5/5

You get what you pay for

How Vibrating Panties work

​Depending on the type of vibrating panties, your partner may have a limited range (like 10-30 feet) to control your pleasure.  However, there are models on the market that allow for unlimited range, with the remote control ​working through apps on smartphones, meaning your partner can literally be anywhere in the world and have ​your partner control your sexual pleasure. This brings public play to an all new and intriguing level.

Check out this vid if you want ​to laugh.

You can also check out this vibrating panties prank video of someone using vibrating panties in public.

There are three ways that vibrating panties work.

#1 ​A normal vibrator put in ​a special compartment of your ​underwear

​You just put the vibrator in a special compartment of the panties and turn the vibrator on.  This option pretty much sucks and is pointless because it doesn't have a remote control option:

Love Rider Self Pleasurizer

No remote control vibrating panties look like this

This type uses a removable bullet vibrator​.  It ​makes cleaning easier, and bullet vibrators are among the quietest toys available, making the vibrating panties that much more erotic.  The issue is every time you want to change the vibrators settings, you have ​have to do it via touching the ​vibrator which means no real public play or element of surprise.  Sucks for couples play.

#2 Vibrator is attached to a ​remote control via a cord​

Venus Butterfly vibrating panties with remote control

The vibrator is attached to a remote control via a cord.

​​This option can be fun for around the house but come on, are you really going to use it in public?  Could you imagine sitting at a cafe, a cord coming out from your underwear to a remote ​your partner is holding?  Imagine the look on the ​waiters face!  It's not exactly discreet.  It is a cheaper option but you get what you pay for.

#3 Wireless Vibrating Panties ​(This is the best option!)

Lovense Lush

Wireless looks like this where you either have a remote or a smart phone app

There are two wireless options:

  1. ​Those that​ use ​a specifically designed remote control.  Max distance isn't large, usually 20-50 feet.
  2. ​App controlled vibrator - Max distance - anywhere on planet earth​. Great for those in long distance relationships and are after a long distance vibrator.

You may choose to wear your vibrating panties throughout your day and be in anticipation of when ​your partner will turn it on.  There are many types that have multiple functions, giving them many options to tease you with, really get you excited, or go all out while you try not to scream out in pleasure where ever you may be!

Have I got your attention

Hmmm. I'm intrigued

No matter your preference or your partners taste, there are various types of vibrating panties out there, from panties that enable you to remove bullet vibrators for switching out, custom toys that are made to slip into any pair of panties, to crotchless vibrating panties designed to wear during intercourse.

Best Vibrating Panties 2020

cheeky wink model

It's awkward wink time

The options are endless.  ​​You can have panties with removable vibrators, built-in vibes, ​g-spot stimulators, ​clitoris stimulation​ and both g-spot and clitoris stimluation.​

If you’re unsure where to start, below is a list of ​my favorite vibrating panties to get you started with your new erotic adventures.  ​

​#1. Fifty Shades Freed

Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise, ​this vibrating underwear ​will be a real treat for the ​kinky part of your personality.

This is by far one of the best vibrating panties you can buy in the market. Without further ado, let’s get into some product details.

Fifty shades freed

Fifty shades freed

The vibrator ​has a bunch of different modes and vibration patterns. You can select eight different pulse patterns and each of them with twelve different intensity levels. This much variety of vibrations can keep you busy for quite some time.

Fifty Shades Free both parts

The vibrator and the remote

The design is also quite exquisite that is how you know it deserves to be in the Fifty Shades collection. The panties ​with stretch lace and ribbon ties will highly compliment your figure where as most other options are a one size fits all deal which is ridiculous because we all come in different shapes and sizes. The ribbon ties make it perfect ​for most sizes. From the outside, it might look like your average panty, but ​only you know the true vibratory power of it hiding in the underneath.

The actual vibrator ​is made from the finest body-safe silicone​ and it ​​feels as soft as silk. Oh, and the vibrator is waterproof too, so you know that​ your fun will not damage the product and it's easy to clean.

The vibrator is rechargeable and will need about two hours to fully recharge.​  There’s a ​classy storage bag for the vibrator as well. ​

​What we liked

  • The performance is ​great
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • ​Easy to clean
  • Luxury silicone
  • Phthalate free
  • Waterproof

​What we didn't like

  • ​Price - wish it was a bit cheaper. ​
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#2. Lovense Lush

The Lovense Lush is one of the most well known options available and I consider it to be a ​great option.  There is a new version of the Lush and at the following link you can check out my full review of the Lovense Lush.

Lovense Lush

​What we liked

  • Has all the power you need and then some
  • Considering the bluetooth vibrator technology, it's great value
  • Super stylish
  • Performance is great
  • Great battery life

​What we didn't like

  • If worn under clothes, your partner needs to be close by
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#3. Lelo Lyla 2

Lelo are renowned for their great quality and the Lyla 2 is no exception.  The Lelo Lyla 2 can be used in public.  Check out my Lelo Lyla 2 review.  Just keep in mind this is a high end toy and comes with a high end price tag.

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​What we liked

  • The performance is outstanding
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • Super stylish
  • Great quality as always by Lelo
  • Can be used externally or worn internally

​What we didn't like

  • Price
​Check price

​#​4. Hot Date Thong

The biggest draw for this toy is the price.  The above luxury items come at a high price where as this option is less expensive.  It's an option for those that have a smaller budget or just want to test to see if they like using remote control vibrating panties.  ​​Just keep in mind that in life you get what you pay for and this item isn't as good as quality as the above options.

Hot Date Thong

Hot Date Thong

​The design of the thong makes it a great piece ​that will actually fit you and be comfortable. There’s a ribbon-tie back with cerise satin decorated beautifully with a floral lace. It’s not only fun, it's sexy.  ​It can be used for solo play as well as to have fun with your partner. The remote vibrator has a range of 5 meters so just hand it to your partner and peacefully enjoy the toe-curling orgasms that await you.

Hot date thong bullet

The tie-back can fit pretty much any size from 4-12, so don’t worry about it not fitting. There are 10 different vibrating modes equipped in this thong with six different intensity levels. Talk about custom pleasure!

Just looking to rock that sexy thong? Just slip the vibrator out and wear the rest as your ordinary, everyday panty. The vibrator itself is quite small and ​concealable with a size of less than 3 inches. Overall, ​I really liked this option and it's a great option for those wanting to test the waters because it works well and is inexpensive.

​What we liked

  • ​Works well
  • ​​Inexpensive
  • ​The panties are actually fairly stylish
  • The material is ABS that makes it really smooth on the skin

​What we didn't like

  • ​Doesn't have quite the performance as some of the above options​
​Check price

#5. OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Panty

When it comes to vibrating panties or other wireless ​toys, OhMiBod is quickly becoming one of the top names in the industry. This is because their product line is introducing a whole new level of erotic pleasure, and this includes vibrating panties too. If you like dancing to music, this model will literally allow you to feel the beat!

OhMiBod Club Vibe 2 Panty 2


Held in a special pouch, the Club Vibe 2 is small and discreet enough to wear without anyone knowing. It can be worn add night, or day depending on your adventures. The design has all your lady bits in mind, from a bump that will tease the clitoris, and the vibrator will gently hug the labia to ensure maximum pleasure.

OhMiBod Club Vibe 2 Panty

There are two ways of controlling this one:

Remote Control – This option brings the possibilities of solo or couple play. It has five various modes of vibration and a range of 20ft. This means your partner can control it from across the room.

Sound activated –If you enjoy music, and like to ‘feel the beat’, then you will have a new meaning to the phrase after using the sound activated option. It will sync vibrations with the beat of your music, making dancing an even more pleasurable experience!

The Club Vibe 2 measures 4” in length, with a width of 2”. It is designed using plastic and a smooth coated surface. It is rechargeable, and lasts up to 4 hours.

​What we liked

  • Being sound activated is a cool feature
  • Can be used as either solo or as a couple
  • Massive 4 hour battery life
  • Fits nicely in your palm
  • Very quiet

​What we didn't like

  • Not water proof
​Check price

#6. Wireless Venus Butterfly

If you are just starting out in the world of vibrating panties, then you will find the Wireless Venus Butterfly to be a comfortable first. They are simple to use, simply put them on and you are on the way to fun, and affordable for experimenting.

Venus butterfly in box

Venus butterfly in box

They are designed to look elegant in the shape of a butterfly, so even the kitten and princess loving girls will find it adorable. Because it is wireless, you will not have to worry over getting stuck in the wires, and it can be controlled by a partner to really make things more interesting.

The butterfly vibrator is the original go-to toy, prior to the introduction of the rabbit. This makes it even more enticing, knowing the design has been around and popular for a long time, there must be a reason. It is also a great option for those who are looking for various ways to enjoy yourself, from public play, partner play, solo play, even water play!

Venus Butterfly

Venus Butterfly

That’s right, the Venus Butterfly is also waterproof, meaning you can take it with you in the shower, bath, hot tub, even swimming if you choose to be really kinky! Is your clitoris starting to flutter just thinking about it?

The bullet vibrator is removable as well, which is held in place with a soft jelly type of material that gives the focused stimulation you want. The size and design of adjustable straps allow it to lay exactly where you want it too. It has been compared to wearing a G-string or garters, except there’s a small bullet vibrator between your legs.

It is made from rubber, and uses 1 AAA battery. It measures 3.5” in length, with a width of 3.5”.

​What we liked

  • Is inexpensive so if you want a "starter" package to see if vibrating panties are for you, this might be your best option.

​What we didn't like

  • Quality isn't great
​Check price

#7. Love Rider Self Pleasurizer

If you want some discreet public fun, but want more than your basic vibrating panties that give you gentle vibration to the clitoris and labia, basically if you’re looking for more than external pleasure, the Love Rider is where you want to look. It brings the best of external, with a level of internal pleasure all at the same time, while being discreet!

Love Rider Self Pleasurizer 2

The panties themselves are made from silky smooth lace, in a boy short style that would not raise any suspicion that it contains a 3.25” probe of vibrating pleasure sewn right in! Simply put the pair of boy shorts on, position the probe as you desire and enjoy the adventure. With the touch of a button, you will turn the bad boy on and be ready for private or public fun.

Love Rider Self Pleasurizer 3

It is designed with a tip that aids the probe in remaining in place, while being discreet and quiet enough no one will ever need to know. This allows you to enjoy wearing the Love Rider anywhere.

Love Rider Self Pleasurizer

To increase the fun even more, it is also waterproof. This means you can easily take it with you in the shower, bath, hot tub or if you desire you can even wear it swimming and no one would know! Talk about one way to spice up your time in the pool.

The 2.25” bullet vibrator inside the probe is removable. The probe measures 3.25” in length, and designed with soft PVC plastic. It is sewn in place and held by the panty.

​What we liked

  • Is inexpensive
  • Waterproof

​What we didn't like

  • You get what you pay for.  This isn't a high quality product, it's an intro product.
​Check price

​Other remote control vibrators which are really popular:

  1. We-Vibe Sync
  2. ​Vibease

There's even remote control butt plugs if that's your thing:

B-vibe rimming toy

So there you have it.  If you have any questions or comments let me know.


The ultimate guide to the best dildos

If ​you are looking to ​spice up your solo bedroom fun or if you are looking to introduce a toy in to a relationship or if you are trying to survive a business trip, ​a ​dildo may be the answer for you.  ​Dildos come in all shapes, sizes, materials, colors and even textures. Today we will focus on manually operated dildos i.e. no batteries, because they are silent and discreet, unlike vibrators which are not as discreet.

​Dildos don't have to be boring! 

There's so much more to ​dildos than something ​shaped like a penis that you use to insert in yourself.  I love ​realistic dildos but I also love variety.  There's heaps of options ​when it comes to dildos such as suction caps, ejaculating, strap ons and much more!  Keep reading to find out more!

Have I got your attention

​I'm listening

​This article will cover the various types of dildos available today, including material types and what to know when shopping around. It will also cover other things ​you need to know for your purchase.  Of course, the article will end ​with me offering a list of dildos which I've used and loved to make your life a bit easier for your dildo search.​  Let’s get going!

This is a long article so if you just want to ​check my main ​recommendations​, check the table below.

DildoThoughts
njoy pure wand
Uncut Tantus
Check price at njoy.com

Best performance. If you're looking for a dildo that will stimulate your g-spot, this is it. There's nothing quite like it.

njoy pure wand
Tantus ultra realistic
Uncut Tantus
Check price at tantus.com

Best quality, ridiculously realistic

Has a harder core and softer outside to allow for more realistic movement. Has a slight curve to it which makes it more pleasurable. Made of 100% ultra-premium silicone. Good size for most.

Realistic. Comes in uncut and cut versions
Beginners Dildo
Beginners - realistic
Check price at lovehoney.com
Great beginner option

Is realistic in appearance and size so if you're new to dildos and just want one to test the waters with, this is a really good option. 6" length and 4.5" girth.

Beginners.
Suction cap.
King Cock big girth
Realistic - girthy
Check price at lovehoney.com
For those that love size

It is big at 7" girth which will be perfect for some but it might be too big for many, you might need to work up to it.

Girthy. A big boy.
It's also very realistic.
Suction cap
Split Peaches Unicorn Dildo
unicorn horn - large - rainbow
Check price at Split Peaches
For the girly-girl

Some times I like a bit of fantasy and being ultra-girly so I pull out the unicorn dildo!
Doc Johnson bust it dildo
Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo set
Check price
Looking for some spice?

Yep, that's right, it will add some spice to dildo play by blowing when ever you want it to.


Types of Dildos

​Below is a list of the types of dildos I'll go over in this section to help you figure out which option is best for you:

  • Penis shaped
  • Squirting
  • Suction Cup
  • Realistic
  • Glass
  • Double Ended
  • Strap Ons
  • Large
  • Jelly
  • Tantus
  • Anal
  • G-Spot
  • Clone a Willy
  • Home-made

Penis Shaped Dildos

Realistic Dildo 2

​Standard, penis shaped dildos

These are your standard run of the mill dildos, which are shaped like a penis. When it comes to a dildo, being shaped like a penis is important because, well let’s face it ladies, it feels good. They can be used solo or with a partner. They are different to realistic dildos because even though they're shaped like a penis, they don't have to be realistic, ​they can come in vivid ​\colors like pink. ​

Squirting dildos

Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo set

Dildo that "ejaculates"

Just what you'd expect, a dildo that ejaculates.  I have an entire squirting dildo guide for you to check out.  I find that this type of dildo adds another level of action that I love.

Suction Cup Dildo

Suction Cup Dildo 2

​Suction dildos can be attached to a hard surface so you can ride it hands free

When you want a toy that is hands free, the suction cup feature is always a plus because you can ride this bad boy. These offer the ability of sticking to nearly any flat surface (table, counter, wall, showers, etc.). It increases the amount of fun possibilities! They come in many different shapes and sizes, and materials. Some can vibrate as well, but to remain discreet as possible we’re focusing on standard today.

Realistic Dildos

Realistic Dildo 1

​Example of a realistic dildo

When you want to get close to the real thing with no strings attached or stalkers, this is it. In addition to being penis shaped, these dildos look and feel real. From having textures of veins and skin to being curved with a defined head, the details are what counts here. CyberSkin is a popular material for this type.  Really add fun to your solo or couple play!

Glass Dildos

Don Wand Real Tip Rocket Glass Dildo

Glass dildo

When you want to introduce temperature play, the glass dildo is at the top of the line. They also have a unique feel when inserted compared to other materials, come in various colors and are easier to clean afterwards. Because glass is not flexible, it remains hard and does not flex as other materials do. They also have different shapes, sizes and textures.

Tip: For temp play, simply place glass dildo in ice water (cold) or warm water (warm) for a few minutes.

Double Ended Dildos

Double Ended Dildo

​Double the trouble with double ended dildos

The double ended dildo is a common toy between two female partners, as there is a penis and head at each end. Although, many straight couples are starting to experiment too! A ‘U’ shaped one is designed for double penetration (vaginal and anal) for solo play. There are some which offer a different shape, size or texture on each end, giving you two options in one. As with others, these also come in various shapes, sizes and materials.

Strap On Dildos

Strap On Dildo 1

​Strap on dildos are popular amongst lesbians

When you want to experiment, or ​spice things up in the bedroom many go for a strap-on. These are used between straight couples and lesbians alike. Believe it or not, many men enjoy pegging.  Commonly used for roleplay, they come in various shapes, sizes, colors, and materials. Another benefit, many harnesses are universal and fit more than one dildo and/or vibrator which allows you to easily increase your collection later.

Large Dildos

Large Dildo 1

​Some love large dildos

That’s right, there is a category all to its self for these massive size dildos. When average and standard are not in your vocabulary, you may want to check out a large dildo. They are made with various materials, shapes, and of curse sizes. Looking for that foot long, or larger? This is your category.

Jelly Dildos

Jelly Dildo

​Jelly dildos allow you to get a bit crazy with the design

Sounds good enough to eat, don’t it? This type of dildo is very flexible, and soft. These are popular due to their versatility, because they are firm, but have enough flex to do what you want with. You will find these in various sizes, colors, textures and shapes.

​Anal Dildos

Anal Dildo 1

​Anal dildos - you'll need some lube handy!

​These are a popular option for solo or couple play. Designed with a base to ensure safety, they come in various shapes and sizes, some have beads others look like a cone. There is a large range for preferences, from small plug to massive.  If you're new to anal, you don't want to start with a dildo, it will be way too big.  Check out my guide on​ how anal beads are a better option for beginners.

lube

​You'll need lube for an anal dildo

G-Spot Dildos

G-Spot Dildo 2

​Designed to stimulate the g-spot

​These dildos are designed to have a bit of a curve that will help it position right at the g-spot for an intense sensation every time you use it. They can come in different shapes, sizes and colors, but always have a slight curve in one way or another.  Check out my article on g-spot vibrators which can give you that g-spot stimulation you're after.  The below youtube vid will help you hit the right spot.

​Clone a Willy Dildo

Clone a Willy Dildo

​Want your partner but he's not around? Try clone-a-willy

This one is like it sounds, when you want a clone of a partner’s willy you can clone that thing and have it anytime, anywhere! This one varies in shape, size and texture based on your partner’s member, obviously.

Home-made

Many people hate the idea of getting "caught" with a dildo so would rather try a home made version.  Check out my article on home-made dildos.

​So that's a list of all the different types of dildos.  There are of course many uses that you may not have considered for dildos.  The below videos  from youtube are obviously purely for humor but hey, we all need some more laughs in life.​


Some of the Best Dildos

To get the best use out of a dildo and some usage tips, check out how to use a dildo.  Now that we have covered the many types of dildos​ it is time to get you started with a list of some popular dildos. Let’s get to it.

cheeky wink model

​It's awkward wink time

Look no further than Tantus

If you want the best, you can't go past Tantus.  I've tried dozens of different dildos and Tantus easily make the best quality.  Sure, you have to pay a premium price but it's absolutely worth it.  Most of the time I prefer realistic dildos and Tantus make the most realistic dildos. 

Megh

My favorite Tantus dildo is the uncut #1.  It features a super soft(TM) outer layer but has a firm inner core.  So it's soft without being too flexible that it gets easily put out of shape.  It's slightly curved which allows for easier and greater g-spot stimulation.  The wrinkles, the veins, the skin make it ultra-realistic which is something you don't get with other, cheaper brands.  The difference in the quality of materials between a premium dildo and a budget dildo are incredible.

I also like a company with a conscious. 

The product is:

  • Eco-Friendly
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Hygienic
  • Boilable
  • Bleachable
  • Dishwasher Safe
  • 100% safe for your body
  • They're also hand made so you know that care has been taken in the process of creating the dildo.

    Tantus makes premium dildos, it's the Cadillac of dildos.

    https://www.tantusinc.com/

    Below I'll go over some less expensive options for those on a budget.

    Njoy Pure Wand

    Nothing, and I mean nothing hits the g-spot like this toy.  It's simply breathtaking.  If you've never had a squirting orgasm, if you've never had the experience of your bed sheets being soaking wet from your own juices than this is the toy for you because if this toy doesn't give you a squirting orgasm, nothing will!  

njoy pure wand

njoy pure wand

​It's the unique shape that just hits the right spot.  Because it's made out of stainless steel, it can also be used for temperature play and is completely body safe.  


It also comes in stylish packaging.

njoy pure wand in packaging

njoy pure wand in packaging

https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=9030

Lovehoney Curved 7-Inch Dildo with Suction Cup - $26.99

Lovehoney Curved 7-Inch Dildo 2

​Lovehoney Curved 7-Inch Dildo with Suction Cup

This is a 7-inch dildo that combines several features, including a curve design for g-spot stimulation and a suction cup for hands free fun. It is created with silicone ensuring safety and pleasure. The head is considered semi-realistic. The curve can also be used for prostate play.

For those looking at strap-on fun, it is compatible with strap-on harnesses. Although this is not a vibrator, if you decide you want vibration, you can place a bullet vibrator inside the base and get vibrations, so it can be a 2-in-1 dildo.

Features are:

  • 7-inches in length
  • 6.5-inches insertable
  • The girth is 4.75-Inch
  • The base diameter is 2.5-inches, while the Oring diameter is 1.5-inches
  • It is firm
  • Designed from silicone
  • Can be submerged in water
  • It does not contain phthalates or latex

https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=30709

Doc Johnson 8-Inch Realistic Jelly Jewels Dildo with Suction Cup - $18.99

The Doc Johnson brand is known for providing a range of fun and safe products, and this is no different. You will find that this 8-Inch dildo is just that, as the full 8 inches is insertable, with flared ends to ensure safety.

Doc Johnson 8-Inch Realistic Jelly Jewels Dildo 2

​Doc Johnson jelly dildo

The head is another focus point, with four firm ridges along the shaft to really increase the pleasure of each session. It’s also clear, offering a ‘window’ into each twist, thrust, and moan. Great for both solo and couples, while being affordable so most Doc Johnson products are.

The flared base also makes this dildo compatible with strap-on harnesses in addition to safety. It is flexible, made from PVC, and can be submerged in water.

Features:

  • It measures 8 inches, being fully insertable
  • The girth is 4.75-inches
  • 2-inch base diameter
  • O-ring diameter of 1.5-inches
  • It does not contain phthalates or latex
  • Made in the USA

https://www.amazon.com/Jelly-Jewels-Dong-Suction-Dildo/dp/B00162WZ04

Don Wand Real Tip Rocket Glass Dildo

When you are wanting an extremely smooth experience or play around with temperature play, this Don Wand glass dildo is a popular choice. As mentioned earlier, these things are like a work of art and this one resembles a lava lamp, with beads of red floating through it.

Don Wand Glass Dildo

Don Wand Glass Dildo

It measures 7.5-inches in length, with a girth of 1.25-inch and 1.5-inch at the end. It is made from glass, so it is not flexible, but easier to clean and maintain. Although glass dildos are created to be strong and durable, it is always good to inspect prior to use, each time.

https://www.amazon.com/Don-Wand-Pleasure-Mushroom-Sweetheart/dp/B0019LV5FS​

Galaxy G Arylic G-Spot Dildo - $22

When you are looking to start or expand your collection with something a little out of the ordinary, then this one is for you. This dildo is made from acrylic, and features multiple levels of texture for enhanced pleasure and sensation.

Galaxy G Acrylic G-Spot Dildo

Galaxy G Acrylic G-Spot Dildo

In addition to looking different, it can be used for solo or couple play. You can use either end for inserting and pleasuring the g-spot. Depending on which end you use, the sensation and pressure will vary as one is a bead and the other is more of a cone shape.

Because it is designed from acrylic, it is not flexible and offers a solid piece. It is easy to clean, and maintain. This is great as it means it will last you much longer than other types of toys.

You can use it for temperature play, by placing it in warm or cold water for a few minutes. Prior to using, ensure to check for temperature to make sure it is not too hot. Do not place in freezer, oven or microwave as this can damage the toy (or microwave).

It measures 9.5-inches, with a girth around 1.5-inches.

Other dildos I've reviewed but didn't make the cut
Dimple twist glass dildo
Blue moon glass dildo
Hephaistos glass dildo
Discontinued Dildos
Toy joy glass pink pacifier
Adam and Eve handmaiden the original
Metal worx double trouble
Icicles blue spiral glass dildo no 9




Types of Dildo Materials

The first dildos were made of stone and date back 28,000 years - check out the first dildo discovered 28,000 years ago:

Archaeologist Petra Kieselbach of German

​Image courtesy of  MICHAEL LATZ/AFP/Getty Images

The first thing to do is make sure you're buying a safe sex toy material.  Fortunately for the modern woman, we have many more options to choose from:

Silicone

This is among the most popular materials due to safety and feel. It is more expensive than others, but offer a smooth velvety feeling. They heat with to body temperature quickly, and come in a range of color options. They can be harder to maintain when not in use, as many have specific storing instructions.  You can even make your own silicone for a sex toy.

Rubber

Due to an entire fetish around this material, it has become one of the more popular materials used with adult toys. It is also less expensive, and comes in various colors. It also offers the benefit of being firm.

Jelly

The jelly toys are popular due to being firm and flexible at the same time. The feel is a bit squishy, and they are elegant in appearance. They can also come scented, which many prefer over the smell of silicone or rubber. Available in a range of colors, they warm quickly and insert easily.

Leather

This is another material that has a fantasy surrounding it, and adult toys are often hand made. It is more common to locate leather cock rings or other adult items, but leather dildos have been known to become available. When they do, they can be rough or smooth based on the leather used.

Cyberskin

This is one of the most recent advances in adult toy material. It offers the user the closest feeling possible to realistic skin, without being attached to a guy. It is soft, squishy, smooth, and flexible, but firm.

Glass

This is another material that is becoming more popular in recent years. Glass offers the smoothest surface out of any material used, but that is only one benefit. They can be created in all shapes and colors, and because many are hand blown, they are more like a piece of art than a dildo. They tend to be more expensive due to this, and they can last a lifetime.

For safety reasons, they are created to be very strong to reduce breaking. Just be sure you purchase from a reputable brand or company. As a test, we have even banged two glass dildos together and not even a chip occurred.

Acrylic

These are another ‘work of art’ type of material. When you want a unique looking dildos or toy, such as an icicle, raindrop or a princess, acrylic is the way to go. They offer a very discreet toy because they can look casual, like a piece of art you would sit on the shelf, not a sex toy in your night stand.

The down side is, it has no flex because it’s a solid material, and takes a while to warm to body temperatures. Many buy acrylic sex toys just for the looks alone, talk about a unique art collection!

Swing into action with a sex swing

January 15, 2020 by Vikki Vines

The value of good sex has come to be recognized by cultures all over the world. Being restricted to just one position brought on monotony to an otherwise enjoyable thing. This led to discoveries of some wonderful positions and methods.  From doggy style to cow girl and 69ing, all these made sex become such a marvelous wonder. Then came BDSM that opened up a whole new approach to sex. For this article we have teamed up with adult movie shop Xvideo. Let’s look at some interesting sexual options in this sex swing guide.

What ​Is A Sex Swing?

A sex swing or an adult swing as they're often called are a type of harness that allow a partner to be suspended in mid air either above the bed or in a clear area.

Shocked blinking

This is the look on most peoples faces when they first hear of a sex swing

If you're interested in this type of thing, check out my sex furniture guide for more inspiration!

The design of most swings varies but they generally have a support sling for the back, one for the buttocks and stirrups for the each leg. They can also be suspended from a bungee or a spring to provide bounce. Essentially, they are a form of BDSM. So if you have ever thought of exploring BDSM but you are not sure, you can start with sex swings and work your way into the ever evolving world of BDSM. Frankly, they are really fun and if you are the type of a person who likes to experience new things, you will enjoy every moment of it.

Dog on swing

Everyone enjoys a good swing session!

Sex swings have come to be known as a means to make sex play hot and spicy allowing the users try out new positions and styles with deeper penetration and explosive thrusts due to one person’s body weight being supported. Sex positions that would otherwise have tired you out or worse land you in hospital will be easily achieved. These next level playthings won’t come cheap mind you, but they will definitely bring in a lot of fun in the bedroom. Using a sex swing can even make you laugh a lot with your partner creating some beautiful and naughty memories.

sex swing

sex swing

​Sex Swing Considerations​

​Before we delve into the type of swings available and positions that can be achieved, there is a number of things you need to know.  When you decide to venture into the world of sex swings, look for the one that makes you feel most comfortable. It would be advisable to start with a traditional swing before you try anything a bit more complex.

You don't say

Depending on how much you want to explore ask around and do your research to know what best fits you and your partner’s needs.

  • You need to check the weight the swing will be able to handle. Most can handle a fair amount of weight with some even going above 300lbs (136kg). But to be safe, read the product description and specifications for more guidance.
  • Look for a sturdy place where you will be able to suspend it or construct it. Ceiling beams are a good go-to as they are able to support a lot of weight. You can drill a hole and use the attachments that will come with the purchase. Otherwise, fixing it in a weak spot can cause damage and that will leave you having some very awkward conversations with the landlord or emergency room. If you can’t find something that will support the weight then the best bet is getting one with a frame to hang the swing from.
  • Look for something that provides the best level of comfort. Swings that pinch you or bend your back too much are to be avoided. You could try a variety of positions to gauge how well it will be able to support you without any distress at the store.
  • The best thing when purchasing a sex swing is to try different shops because that even helps in gouging the prices. This will prevent you from buying from overpriced by unscrupulous sellers. Once you really get the hang of it then can you safely make the transaction over the internet. But be sure of what you want beforehand.
  • You get what you pay for.  If you buy a cheap option this could happen:


​What are sex swings made of?

They are usually made from leather, nylon, polyester, metal, foam, wood, and other materials like neoprene for soft padding. They come in different varieties.

  • Platforms – Platforms are rigid and leave the back straight. Platforms are hard or soft depending on the padding.
  • Hammock – Hammocks are flexible and curve the body in a natural way thus are very comfortable.
  • Stirrups and straps – Stirrups and straps are where the legs and arms go, they support the legs, arms and back.

​Types of sex swings

​There are ​three main types of swings which include:

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  1. Body Swings - Body swings are harnesses that fit around one partner with the straps, loops and stirrups for the other partner. It needs the holding partner to be a bit strong and have a lot of stamina.
  2. Door Sex Swings - Door swings are made with straps and loops that have two bars which are secured onto a closed door. They are the cheapest among swings, easy to set up and are not a bother to carry when traveling. But they do not offer a lot of flexibility.
  3. ​Fantasy Sex Swings - ​Fantasy swings are suspended from a hook in the ceiling or a sex swing stand and have a hammock or a loop.
Body sex swing

Body sex swing

Door sex swing

Door sex swing

Fantasy sex swing

Fantasy sex swing

Fantasy sex swing with stand

Fantasy sex swing with stand

​​Sex Swing Positions

Now we have come to the fun part. There are a number of sex swing positions that you can do with a sex swing which will blow you and your lover away.

The below sex swing video from youtube will help you learn how to use a sex swing:

  1. Doggy Style In Space - This is best used with a hammock type style of swing. The woman lies face down with the hammock supporting the body. The partner holds on to your hips or thighs and then penetrates either anally or vaginally. The motion allows for deeper and stronger thrusts. And if you’re the lazy type then this is definitely for you.
  2. Swing Missionary - Sit in the swing with your legs spread apart. Use the stirrups for support. As penetration begins, the rocking movement will send you to heaven. The thrusts become deeper and stronger than ever.
  3. Fidget Spinner - Lower the swing set to just above the ground leaving a small amount ofroom. The partner is to lie down on the ground and then lower yourself. Hold on to the straps and your legs should be in the stirrups. When you do so and are low enough to let him penetrate you and then start spinning in a 360 degree motion. This will take your orgasms at a whole other level.
  4. The Magic Carpet 69 - You lean back on the straps with your legs held up by the stirrups. Your partner puts one leg on each side of your head and both of you can start giving some good oral service. The weightlessness of the action will help you swing with ease and give you good motion control.

​Best Sex Swings 2020

Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit

Key Features:

  • Door jam sex swing for comfortable support during upright intimacy
  • Sturdy acrylic barbells offer reliable support over any closed household door
  • Strong Nylon, cushioned Neoprene and sturdy stirrups and handles offer durability and comfort
  • Easy pack down with no permanent fixtures
  • Suitable for weights up to 325lbs/ 23 stone 3lbs / 147.4 KG
Sportsheets door jam sex swing

Sportsheets door jam sex swing

https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=20331

https://www.sportsheets.com/products/door-jam-sex-sling

Trinity sex swing

​A really popular option from Extreme Restrains

Trinity sex swing

Trinity sex swing

https://www.extremerestraints.com/trinity-sex-swing.html

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

​​​​​Key features:

  • Torsion spring for weightless sex experience
  • Swing rotates 360 degrees
  • Fully adjustable, extra-wide nylon straps
  • Large padded supports for back and butt
  • Soft padded stirrups provide maximum comfort
  • Safe, comfortable, easy to use
  • Quick and easy to install
  • Comes complete and fully assembled
  • Installation hardware included
  • Suggested weight limit not to exceed 350 lbs.
  • Free fantasy eye mask

​https://www.adameve.com/sexy-extras/liberators-position-aids/sex-swings/sp-fetish-fantasy-spinning-swing-85885.aspx

​Sex Swing Wrap up

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​The sex positions that you are able to do with sex swings are only limited by your imagination.There are so many more for you to discover. So do not limit yourself to just the basics but explore different avenues, techniques and styles. Learn what is good for both you and your partner. Speak to your partner on what makes you comfortable and what makes you excited. Make sure both of you are on the same page. It is a world that will bring both of you wonderful orgasms and therefore it has to be fun for both people. But remember, always put safety first and don’t go trying moves you are not sure about.

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The best rabbit vibrators in 2020 – The ULTIMATE buying guide

Rabbit vibrators can ​give you more pleasure than you ​ever expected because they offer both internal and external stimulation and can help you to achieve that one of a kind orgasm that ​we're all after, the blended orgasm.

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Hopefully this is what you'll experience

The market for adult sex toys is ​HUGE, especially sex toys for women (yay us) and rabbit vibrators are among the most common and popular toys available.  There is a good reason they are so popular, they ​can be amazing if you pick the right one!  It doesn’t matter if you are new to the self-pleasure world or a long time ​user of sex toys, rabbit vibes ​will help you get oohing and awing and exploring your sexuality in no time flat.

​Here's a classic clip from Sex and the City about rabbit vibrators that brings back a lot of memories!

​Keep reading to find out more on what rabbit vibrators are, how to choose the right one for you, how to use them, and finally, we will cover some tips to get you started on your way to O-town!

This is a long article, so if you just want to cut to the chase check out the table below to see ​a summary of my hard work...

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Rabbit vibrator comparison table

VibratorThoughts
Lelo Soraya
LELO_Insignia_Soraya
Check Price at Lelo.com
and Lovehoney.com
The best luxury option

It's so classy and stylish and the performance is outstanding. It's a great gift option.

Rating: 4.8/5
Happy Rabbit 2
Happy Rabbit 2 side
Check price at Love Honey
The best mid priced option for a rabbit vibrator.

Rating: 4.5/5

It has flexible ears so you can adjust them so that they surround your clitoris perfectly. The head of the shaft has some flex to it as well, so you can tailor the angle to suit your body.
Lelo Ina Wave
INA_Wave_Movement
Check Price at Lelo.com
Works differently to most because the shaft moves in a similar fashion to using your pointer finger to do the come here action.

Rating: 4.4/5
Tracey Cox Supersex vibrator
Tracey Cox Supersex vibratorCheck price at Love Honey
It's good without being great. It just didn't provide quit firm enough g-spot stimulation for me.

Rating: 4.2/5
The Wet Wabbit
The Wet WabbitCheck price at Adam and Eve
A best seller but it's no way near as good as the options above.

Rating: 3.3/5
Thrusting Jack Rabbit
Thrusting Jack Rabbit vibrator
Is much cheaper than the other options and you get what you pay for
Rating: 3.2/5
Jessica Rabbit 10 Function Rabbit Vibrator
Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit 10 Function Rabbit VibratorCheck price at Love Honey
It’s if you want something inside you while your clit is being stimulated. It's not great with your g-spot.

Rating: 3.1/5
Utimi g-spot and clitoris vibrator
Utimi g-spot and clitoris vibratorCheck price at amazon
The angle of the head isn't quite right

Rating: 3.1/5
Eve’s Triple Pleasure Rabbit
Eve's Triple Pleasure Rabbit
Nice novelty item but really, there's just too much going on with this toy.
Rating: 2.9/5
Vibratex Rabbit Habit Vibrator
Rabbit Habit VibratorCheck price at amazon
The noise is overbearing

Rating: 2.8/5

What are Rabbit Vibrators?

Vibrators and dildos have been around for a long time​ but the history of rabbit vibrators is that they have only been around a few decades.  It is the unique design that sets a rabbit vibrator apart from other types of vibrators on the market. The point of difference for any rabbit vibrator is that it has the ability to stimulate your clitoris while being inserted into the vagina and stimulating the g-spot​ at the same time.

The below video will show you how a rabbit vibrator works.

By stimulating your g-spot and clitoris at the same time you should be able to maximize your sexual pleasure. ​​That's why rabbit vibes have become such ​a popular toy ​in recent years. With its popularity, there have been a wide range of designs and models made.


How to Choose a Rabbit Vibrator

​There are several factors that go into choosing the best rabbit vibrator but the most important factor is to stick to quality options made be reputable brands.

Stick with quality

Buying a rabbit vibrator is by far and away the most difficult vibrator to buy.  I strongly recommend buying a decent one or else you'll end up looking like this:

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The low-end ​rabbit vibrators just won’t work well and here’s why, a good rabbit vibrator is a fairly complex piece of machinery. Virtually all cheap versions don't have a curved head that vibrates to hit the g-spot.  You can check out the pics below or you can check out some of the best quality g-spot vibrators here and you'll see what I mean by a curved head. Look at the way g-spot vibrators are curved, that's what you're after in a rabbit vibrator as well but cheap versions just don't have it.  ​

Issues with cheap rabbit vibrators:

  1. Poor quality material used
  2. Design is usually poor and won't maximize your g-spot pleasure
  3. We all have different anatomy, better quality rabbit vibes will contour to your body better​
  4. Vibrations for cheap options and no where near as good, they're buzzy, not rumbly and might leave you feeling numb
  5. ​Better quality options have two different motors that can be controlled individually so that you have the right vibration for your clitoris and g-spot

Design

​If you want proper G-Spot stimulation from your toy, you will want to find ​vibrator that offers a curved tip design to allow you to easily direct the vibrations to your most sensitive areas, at the same time.  This will stimulate your g-spot and the rabbit ears will provide clitoral stimulation for intense orgasms.  You might even be multi-orgasmic!

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A design like this with a bulbous head helps to stimulate the g-spot

Tracey Cox Supersex vibrator

A curved head like this also works to stimulate the g-spot

Rabbit Habit Vibrator

A straight head like this doesn't really hit the g-spot well

​If you want anal play, you should look for a rabbit vibrator that offers anal stimulation. Typically, these rabbits are designed with the shaft, clitoris stimulator and a third, anal stimulator. Although, they can come in different ways as well. For instance, there are models with two shafts, and a clitoris stimulator for those into double penetration.  I've tried it, didn't like it but maybe you will!

Eve's Triple Pleasure Rabbit

This rabbit vibe also has some anal action but ​realistically there's just too much going on here!

Features

Once you know which functions you want; the next step is to determine which features ​you're after. Below are some popular features to look for:

  • Rechargeable – Avoid buying batteries all the time
  • Waterproof – Do you plan on using it in the shower or bath?
  • Multi-Speed – Do you want to customize each experience and have more than on/off?
  • Size -  This is important as it ultimately determines what type of sensations you will experience, and if you enjoy your toy or wish you had a different one
  • Length​ - If you are just starting out, you may want to practice with size to find what works best for you. Some women are good with a smaller length, which is sufficient for g-spot stimulation, others want more length to hit rock bottom.
  • Girth - This is the overall width, again some find a smaller or average girth is sufficient for their needs. Others find a larger, thicker girth is preferred.

Materials​

Materials are another important area to keep in mind and make sure you use your sex toy safely​ and avoid phthalates.  a There are several reasons you always want to know what your toy is made from:

realistic rabbit vibrator

Realistic rabbit vibrator. It's a massive turn off for me. MASSIVE.

  • First: If you have sensitive skin or specific material based allergies, such as latex or silicone, you obviously want to avoid products made with these materials.
  • Second: If you want to extend the life of your new toy, you need to know how to care for it based on the material type. For instance, silicone toys should not be stored together. Some toys should only be used with water-based lubricant, while others only use silicone based lube, and there are some that it does not matter.
  • Third: How do you want your toy to feel? The material is ultimately what gives it the final sensation. Do you want it to be very hard (plastic), firm, but flexible (silicone), soft and flexible (gels), or do you want a more, realistic look and feel (CyberSkin)?

​Aesthetic appeal​

LELO_Insignia_Soraya

This is sexy

the rabbit vibration

This is not sexy unless you're some sort of cyborg sex robot

Some toys are just more sensual and erotic than others.  Some are designed beautifully with aesthetics in mind and some are designed cheaply ​with just ​function in mind.  Personally I find it more pleasurable to use a sexy looking vibrator, I don't like the cheap looking ones.  They just turn me off a little bit.


A closer look at the top 10 best options for 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0WM4a71DFs
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​#1. Lelo Soraya

​Lelo always make great products and this is no exception.  It's great quality and is very classy and stylish so if you want a rabbit vibe as a gift, this is your best option.  Lelo Soraya review.

LELO_Insignia_Soraya

​What we liked

  • The performance is outstanding
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • Super stylish
  • Fits nicely in your hand
  • Very quiet considering the power

​What we didn't like

  • ​The price. It's got a high price but you do get what you pay for
​Check price

​#2. Happy Rabbit 2

​This amazing toy has a curved tip that will tease you while the bunny stimulator tickles your most intimate places. There are powerful vibrations from 2 different motors, 3 bunny vibration speeds, and 12 shaft vibrations that will make you greedy for more time alone. What makes this one unique, is that you can charge it up via USB cable.

Happy Rabbit 2 side

​What we liked

  • The performance is outstanding
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • ​Two independent motors
  • ​Price
  • ​Adjustable so that it can suit your phisiology

​What we didn't like

  • ​The performance isn't as good as the Soraya​
  • ​I wouldn't qualify it as super noisy but it isn't as quiet as the Soraya​
​Check price

#3. Lelo Ina Wave

​Another quality product by Lelo.  Check out the video so see how it works.

Full Lelo Ina Wave review.

The Lelo Ina 2 is also a great rabbit vibe.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzeS0TMVdgA

​What we liked

  • The performance is ​really good
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • ​Really stylish

​What we didn't like

  • ​It certainly hit the spot and did a good job but it didn't quite match my body as well as other products​
​Check price

​#4. Tracey Cox SuperSex Vibrator

Tracey Cox Supersex vibrator

​It's a good product but for the price I think you're better off getting off with Happy Rabbit 2 Vibrator.

​What we liked

  • The performance very good
  • ​Deep, intense rumbles
  • Nice design​
  • ​Heaps of functionality​

​What we didn't like

  • Nothing I can put my finger on.  It's just that others had better performance​​​​
​Check price

​#​5. The Wet Wabbit

The Wet Wabbit

​This rabbit is great for spicing up your shower time. The rotating tip makes it have a more life-like feel while the massaging metal beads add in a unique pleasure that you couldn't imagine. There are multiple vibration and rotation settings, and it has a built in controller for more fun that you would expect.

​What we liked

  • The performance is ok
  • ​Good for those that want something inexpensive

​What we didn't like

  • ​Cheap looking
  • ​It's just not as good as others but it is cheaper
​Check price

​#6. Utimi g-spot and clitoris vibrator​

Utimi g-spot and clitoris vibrator

Is a very low cost option so you could call it an entry model to see if you like rabbit vibrators.  You do get what you pay for though and you can't expect an inexpensive vibrator to have the same performance as a premium vibrator.  So if you're looking for a budget option check out the Utimi g-spot and clitoris vibrator.

​What we liked

  • ​Very inexpensive for beginners
  • ​​Great value for money​

​What we didn't like

  • ​If you're experienced with rabbit vibes, this won't be great for you.​
  • ​If you want outstanding performance, this isn't for you​
​Check price

​#7. Jessica Rabbit

Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit 10 Function Rabbit Vibrator

A decent budget option. ​

​What we liked

  • Price

​What we didn't like

  • ​Not great for your g-spot
​Check price

​#​8. Thrusting Jack Rabbit Vibrator

Thrusting Jack Rabbit vibrator

This toy can give you orgasm after orgasm as it hits your G-Spot, clit, and vagina. The tip thrusts in and out while the beads spin to add plenty of sensation to your sexual workout. The rabbit ears give you a powerful tickle. There are 7 different vibration patterns and 6 different rotation and thrusting speeds. What is even better is that this bad boy is waterproof so you can use it during some private tub time.​

​What we liked

  • ​It's a little different to other products
  • ​Reasonable price

​What we didn't like

  • N​ot great for your g-spot
​Check price

​#9. Eve's Triple Pleasure Rabbit

Eve's Triple Pleasure Rabbit

This unique toy will not only stimulate your G-spot with 3 different rotation speeds, but it will stimulate your backdoor as a well. There are 3 rotation speeds and a bunny that will massage your clit. The dual vibrating motors will give you a choice on what you want to control. There isn't many like this out there, but it does have its own built in remote, so you can have fun where you want.​

​What we liked

  • The novelty factor

​What we didn't like

  • ​A bit too much going on
​Check price

​#10. Vibratex Rabbit Habit Vibrator

Rabbit Habit Vibrator

​One of my pet peaves with vibrators is noise.  I find it a real turn off if my vibe is too noisy.  I mean, I expect noise but some products are just too loud! Read review

​What we liked

  • ​Not much

​What we didn't like

  • The noise is just too much
  • ​The price
​Check price


How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

The first thing you need to do is be in the right mood, be relaxed and comfortable.  Using a rabbit vibrator is much like using any other. You will want to lube it up first, and get yourself in the mood with some foreplay. Then, simply insert the vibrator and position the clitoris stimulator as needed and find the g-spot with the internal part of the vibrator.

​​If you can't find the g-spot straight away, it's ok because as you get turned on from clitoral stimulation, it gets easier to find the g-spot.  Think of it like this, as you get turned on, your g-spot will get turned on and it will become more sensitive and easier to find.

If you have a model with anal stimulation or g-spot stimulation, wiggle it around and find the perfect position for you.

Tips on Using Your Rabbit Vibrator

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Although using rabbits are simple, below are a couple pro tips to try!

  • Use your thighs – Go hands free by positioning your toy, and using your thighs to hold it in place. This allows your hands to be free for other, activities.
  • Temperature Play – Depending on the material, you can try heating or cooling your toy prior to use by placing it in a bowl of warm or cold water.
  • Press on your stomach lightly if you're having trouble with your g-spot
  • If you need more help with the g-spot, check out this guide below

Wrapping up

Rabbit vibes are the hardest vibrator to buy because there's a lot going on with them.  Buy a quality option or else you might be disappointed and never try a rabbit vibe again.  Stick to the best brands because they make better quality toys and you know they use body safe materials unlike cheaper options.

​The following toys will give you ​dual stimulation of your clitoris and your g-spot but can be used during sex:

  • We-Vibe 4
  • We-Vibe 4 Plus
  • We-Vibe ii
  • Lelo Ida couples toy

Rabbit vibes that did not make the cut

  • Bondara silicone rechargeable rabbit
  • Rampant Rabbit
  • ​Ultimate G-vibrator (Discontinued)
  • The Kissing Swan
  • Another rabbit vibrator to keep in mind is the Picobong Kaya.
  • The Silicone Butterfly Kiss might be the right vibrator for you.


Squirting Dildo Buying Guide With Recommendations

January 10, 2020 by Vikki Vines

​When it comes to shopping for dildos, there are many options to choose from such as your basic silicone dildos, to your realistic Cyberskin designs with vein textures, to dildos molded after porn stars etc.  However, when you want a dildo that is as similar to the real deal as you can possibly get without actually using the real deal, you'll want a money shot so then you may want to learn more about squirting dildos to complete the realism.

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​Sort of how squirting dildos work lol!

​Squirting dildos are commonly called ejaculating dildos or cumming dildos, which allows the user to make the dildo ejaculate (squirt/cum/jizz, you get the picture) when ready.

If you're into experimenting with your sexuality I highly recommend orgasming in public!  WTF you say?  Check out my vibrating panties guide so you can discreetly orgasm in public.  We all like to get a little naughty from time to time!

Summary of my hard work.

DildoRating
Bust It by Doc Johnson
Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo set
Check price at Love Honey
4.7

The high quality option.

Good size and the cum actually looks real and the actual cumming function works well.

Read review
Derek Ejaculating dildo
Derek ejaculating dildo size
Check price at amazon
3.6

Too big. Way too big. Seriously, a 7 inch circumference is monstrous.

Read review
Squirting Dildo with Vibration
SexFlesh ejaculating dildo
Check price at amazon
3.5

Vibrations aren't strong enough, like not even close. The odor and taste aren't ideal either...

Read review

​Now ​it’s time to look a little deeper into how these next level dildos work!


What to Look For in a Squirting Dildo

Size

Like any other dildo you buy, you should consider shape, size, and material. If you are new to adult toys or unsure of what size is best, you can always use the cucumber test to accurately determine the size.

doc johnson ejaculating dildo

A realistic option

Shape

There are different types of shapes, including textures available. Dildos with ridges and bumps create a larger feel, and vein textures are more life-like.

Material

There are various materials, but silicone is among the most common as it is easier to clean and maintain. If you have allergies to certain materials, such as latex you need to consider the materials carefully.  Anything that you put inside you must be body safe, it must be phthalate free.  Do not buy a dirt cheap option because it could be dangerous to your health.

Color

You can also get a variety of colors

Black squirting dildo

The most common colors available are white, black and brown


How Do Ejaculating Dildos Work?

The main reason you're buying a cumming dildo is for the money shot otherwise it's just a dildo.  After you have an idea of what you want aesthetically, prior to purchasing a squirting dildo you should understand how they work, let’s take a look.

ejaculating dildo

Example of the realism of a squirting dildo!

An ejaculating dildo works by ejecting a lubricant or fake cum, which has a similar appearance and texture of semen.  The lubricant is designed to safely be ejaculated inside of the vagina, or on the skin. This means you will be able to have the sexual stimulation you desire from a dildo, while having the option to take your stimulation and desires to another level.

The Lubricant/Jizz

The first thing to consider after purchasing your new squirting play toy is, what are you filling it with?

There are several areas to consider here, with your health being the first. Like with the material, if you are allergic to any specific lubricants or chemical properties used in certain lubes – Don’t Use Them!


You want to ensure the lube is not only designed for safe use, but safe for you and your new toy. In addition to making sure the lubricant is safe for you, you need to make sure it is safe for your toy (depending on the material). For example, if you purchased a silicone based toy, you want to use lube designed for silicone.


There are many options when it comes to lubricant for ejaculating dildos, and some of them such as the Doc Johnson Realistic Ejaculating 6-Inch Cock allows you to play around with the recipe! This means you can use your favorite lube, use the included recipe, or create your own fake cum based on your desires. There are even flavored lubricants available, just in case you want to practice your oral skills!

You can also buy some store bought options:

  1. Master Series Jizz
  2. Spunk lube
  3. Bad Dragon Cum Lube
  4. Squirtz Cum Lube
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Preparing It

Before you start your play session, you will need to fill the dildo with the semen-like lubricant so it is prepared and ready when you are. A squirting dildo is designed a little different that a regular dildo, that is, it has the added feature of a trigger. Generally, you will find that ejaculating dildos have a hand pump attached to them that allow you to easily trigger the dildo (penis) to ejaculate on command.

King cock cumming dildo

Shows the hand pump down the bottom

Although designed to ejaculate, you can choose not to fill a squirting dildo with the lubricant and simply use it as a regular dildo. This is common for those with the occasional fantasy or urge to get messy, but do not want a mess to clean up every time.  For more info check out how to use a dildo.

Sometimes though, it's good to get messy.

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​It's fun to get a little crazy

The Aftermath

While preparing the lube for your big finish, you should consider the aftermath. Once you have had your fun and get that big finish you have been craving, you are left with the task of cleaning up. The clean-up could be simple, messy or no clean up required depending on a few factors. For instance, if you decide not to fill it with lubricant, you will not have any mess, but no squirting finish. If you fill your toy just slightly, you can have a small finish with minimal clean up. However, if you purchased a large ejaculating dildo with the fantasy of getting real naughty and you fill it completely with your semen recipe, things could get quite wild and, well very messy.

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If you plan to slightly fill your toy, it should be safe to assume clean-up is easy, but if you are wanting a huge finish then you may want to prep the area prior to starting. For instance, putting a towel or blanket down that can easily be washed afterwards. Having a mattress cover may be a good idea as well, just to be safe.

You'll probably want to shower afterwards.  Who knows, you'll might even be singing in the shower.

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​The happy clean up

Partner Play

Squirting dildos are not just for solo activities, and can be enjoyed by partners as well. When using an ejaculating dildo to get warmed up, your partner can enjoy the pleasures of the lube inside you too. Also, for those with the desire of being extra naughty, it can create the simulation of a threesome and an even larger finish.

Other dildo uses

​​There are many other uses for dildos you may not have considered.  ​The below youtube vids are obviously jokes but we could all do with more laughter in life!


Best Cumming Dildo in 2020

​Most people fail to acknowledge that sexual climax is as important as the initial engagement of sex. For many females the visualization of a man climaxing is a major turn on, so why not get that when you decide to please yourself?  In today's tech-savvy world it is possible to recreate this with dildos.

These dildos cum is as real as a man's semen as it ejaculates lube that is as thick and musty scented as the real thing.  When purchasing an ejaculating dildo, it is advisable to also buy the lube produced by the same manufacturer so as to avoid any problems with the sex toy.

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​The following are a few from a wide selection of ejaculating dildos we’d recommend

#1 Bust It – Squirting Realistic Cock by Doc Johnson

For a start, it's made by a reputable company that we all know and love.  Anything that is inserted into me has to be body safe and the Bust It ejaculating dildo is phthalate-free and body safe.  It's made in America so you know that the quality control process is highly regulated unlike products made overseas.

Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo

The first thing I love about it is just how realistic it is.  It is absolutely top quality.  I also love that it has a suction cap that actually works which will give you a bunch of ways to use the dildo, so many dildos don't have good quality suction caps.  I rode this bad boy without the hassle of having to attach it back to the bench.  The suction cap is also removable so if you want to use it without the suction cap you can.  Variety is the spice of life!  I also love the fact that I'm in complete control, the dildo blows exactly when I want it to, never too early!  That makes it a lot of fun because I'm guaranteed to be finished before the dildo has finished.

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​Oh yeah!

Using a cumming dildo really enhances the experience and I must admit that now most of the time I use a dildo I use the Doc Johnson Bust it because having a cumming dildo really adds to the experience for me.  It just wouldn't be sex if there wasn't some mess to clean up at the end.

It includes 1 oz of "Nut butter" which is basically a jizz replacement.  I liked it, most of the time the quality of the jizz substitute for ejaculating dildos is really poor but the "Nut butter" is probably as good as you'll get.  I haven't got any better.

  • The total length is just over 9"
  • Usable length is 7"
  • Circumference is just under 6"
  • It comes in 3 colors, white, black and brown.

​What we liked

  • ​Realistic
  • ​Nut butter is realistic and good quality
  • ​Reputable brand
  • ​Body safe materials
  • Made in America

​What we didn't like

  • ​I would have liked it to have come with more nut butter​
​Check price

#2. Derek Ejaculating dildo

Derek ejaculating dildo size

​Size of Derek Ejaculating dildo

​This one of a kind dildo is among the best you will find in the market. At twelve inches long and over 7 inches of circumference it’s going to take you some time before you can comfortably accommodate its full length and girth. Its realistic detailed craftsmanship from the tip to its shaft are designed to reward your erotic needs but it is just too big for most.  If you can accommodate it, you'll have a good time but I'm just not a fan of massive over the top dildos.  The ball sack on this dildo holds about half an ounce of liquid, and are easy to fill.​​​​

Derek ejaculating dildo

​What we liked

  • Easy to fill with liquid
  • Looks realistic
  • Decent price

​What we didn't like

  • Too big
  • Ejaculate wasn't as realistic as others
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#3. Squirting Dildo with Vibration

​​This ejaculating dildo needs 2 AA batteries to power it. It is 8.25 inches long and 2 inches wide. You load the dildo with come through suction.  Just press the balls while the tip is inside a bowl full of liquid. The dildo can be used as a vibrator as well but because it's so big, the vibrations just aren't good enough for me.

SexFlesh ejaculating dildo

​The odor isn't great and neither is the taste.  It gets dirty easy and the way it cums isn't great.  It works fine with water, but not with lube where as I and most others don't want the cum to be water, we want it to be reasonably realistic.  

​What we liked

  • ​I like novelty and this item has some novelty

​What we didn't like

  • ​The odour
  • The taste
  • Doesn't cum great when filled with realistic jizz. Only works well with water
  • Vibrations aren't powerful enough
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Squirting Dildo Benefits

  • For those with fantasies of semen, a squirting dildo allows you to safely and privately fulfill those fantasies, without anyone ever knowing (unless of course you want them to know).
  • Can increase stimulation during partner play, or spice things up when things start to get old and boring.
  • Many products allow you to choose the lubricant or semen recipe you prefer, allowing you to customize the experience even further.

Squirting Dildos Disadvantages

  • The number one disadvantage to these type of toys is likely the aftermath, as it is easy to get lost in the moment and enjoy yourself, but then realize the area looks like the local baker went crazy with the extra glaze…
  • May not be as discreet as other types of dildos
  • Unlikely to give you an orgasm.  If a g-spot orgasm is what you're after, you can't go past a g-spot vibrator.

If a cumming dildo isn't for you but you still want a dildo, check out my guide to the best dildos.

Filed Under: Dildo, Reviews

We-Vibe Rave Review

September 25, 2019 by Vikki Vines

 

If you’re a sex toy fanatic, there’s a good chance that you own at least a couple We-Vibe toys. They’re highly consistent with the quality of their toys. And, even though the Rave looks like an overgrown, purple banana, it’s an amazing g-spot vibrator. With that being said, let’s tell you exactly how we came to this conclusion by giving you a rundown of what’s included inside this toy.

We-Vibe Rave

We-Vibe Rave

Packaging

We-Vibe is always amazingly creative with the packaging and also come up with some unique / sleek designed box for their toys. The Rave comes in a beautiful white box. We-Vibe always keep nudity off of their packaging, and it’s definitely appreciated with the Rave. Inside the box, the Rave sits prettily on white foam. Other contents of the box include a white charger, a satin pouch and an instruction manual. The pouch mentioned is pretty roomy and can carry all the other contents of the box, making Rave extremely portable and best for women on the go.

Material

Just like any standard We-Vibe toy, the Rave is made from 100% medical-grade silicone material. This is, by far, the best silicone that We-Vibe could possibly have in their toy. It’s non-porous, phthalates-free and completely body/skin safe. The silicone used in this specific toy has a matte and silky finish which does feel spectacular inside you.

The Rave isn’t waterproof, so do be careful of that. It’s splash-proof, but think twice before taking this for a dip in the bath tub.

Design

This toy is pretty weirdly built if we’re being honest. It’s not straight, nor is it uniformly bent, it’s somewhere in the middle where it looks like someone forcibly bent it out of shape. It looks flexible and often gets mistaken for a toy that could be shaped. But, this toy is amazingly rigid and is fabulous for women that want immense pressure directly on their G-Spot.

The Vibrations

The Rave is strong, and when we mean strong, we mean STRONG. If you’re new to sex toys or have a sensitive vagina, then you will not be able to endure the toy at maximum strength. Most of the time, vibrators have a silicone body that pulls a pillow on the blunt vibrations, but fortunately, that’s not the case with the Rave. This toy is highly recommended for women that are not scared of getting wrecked by their toy, and with a ten different vibration patterns, wrecked is what you’ll be.

The best part about the vibrations, they’re not loud! Somehow, We-Vibe managed to fit a tractor’s amount of power and gave it the sound of a TV remote. The sound is light enough that it would be muffled under a blanket and won’t even go across the room. So, if you’re living with people that shouldn’t know of your devious activities, then the Rave is a good product to go with.

 

https://we-vibe.com/rave

Filed Under: G-spot vibrator reviews, Reviews

LELO Ina 2 review

September 16, 2019 by Vikki Vines

Who in the sex toy world doesn’t know of the legendary LELO? The folks come up with some of the most spectacular toys mankind has ever seen and they certainly aren’t disappointing anyone with the product we have here today. A major upgrade to the Ina, the Ina 2 is one of the best rabbit vibrators you could possibly buy. To clarify our explanation, here’s a rundown of all the specs in the Ina 2.

Lelo Ina 2

Lelo Ina 2

Packaging

LELO is known for their amazingly fancy packaging and they certainly didn’t disappoint with the Ina 2. The vibrator comes in a fancy purple box, matching the color of the toy. The insides however, are colored matte black. Overall, the packaging is extremely satisfying to open. It feels like you’re giving yourself a small gift, or a token of appreciation.

 

Other than the toy itself, the box contains some other goodies to go with your new purchase as well. There is a lockable pouch for travelling, a charging cord, a packet of LELO lubricant, and a user manual. There’s no batteries in the box itself because the Ina 2 comes with rechargeable batteries already installed.

Material

Well, you can already guess that LELO wouldn’t use a material that could possibly be harmful. They never have and they probably never will. The Ina 2 is made using medical-grade, body-safe silicone that is 100% phthalates-free. Apart from that, the Ina 2 is also completely waterproof.So, keep on enjoying the immense pleasure of the Ina 2 without even a shred of worry!

The Features

Let’s delve into the technical aspects of the Ina 2. Just like any decent rabbit vibrator, this thing comes with two separate motors; one for the shaft and one for the rabbit head. Both are completely silent so discreet play is pretty easy with the Ina 2. The shaft and the rabbit are designed to be a bit apart from one another to make positioning easier.

 

The battery on this rabbit vibrator is absolutely insane. Considering the fact that the toy has to run dual motors, its really surprising that it has the play time it does. It takes two hours to charge the battery and it lasts exactly four hours long. Yup, you read that right. In a world where you have to charge a toy for an hour to get 30 minutes of playtime, LELO went above and beyond and equipped their toy with the finest pair of batteries they could get their hands on.

There are four buttons of the shaft to control all the settings of the toy. There are total of eight modes that can used during play. They are:

  • Both Motors Enabled
  • Shaft Enabled
  • Ears Enabled
  • Alternate Vibrations of Both
  • Transition Between the Two Every Second
  • Pulsing the Two Ever Second
  • Escalating from Shaft to Ears
  • Randomized Vibrations throughout the toy

The toy can be purchased directly from Lelo – https://www.lelo.com/ina-2

Filed Under: Rabbit vibrator reviews, Reviews

Kasai Aura review

February 21, 2019 by Vikki Vines

UPDATE 2020 – DISCONTINUED

For women who are looking for an elegant toy like myself, the Kasai Aura may be just the one you are looking for. After trying it out, it quickly turned into the one I did not know I was looking for, and often one of my go to toys on those lonely nights by myself. But, the fun is only enhanced when you bring it out and let your partner use it on you! Okay, we better get on with the review before I get too worked up!

Kasai Aura

Kasai Aura

My Kasai Aura is purple, because it is my favorite color. The design is high quality and provides an elevated massage, which can be used on any part of the body. This thing is good for relaxing, working out cramped muscles, and that fun play time. That makes this little thing a good investment, and very discreet at the same time.  Not as discreet as a homemade vibrator though.  The size is small, making it a breeze to reach various parts of the body.

It is made with 100% silicone and the surface is waterproof, but I would not submerge it under water. It can be charged using a regular plug or a USB. This means you can always have it ready for your needs. It also has multiple speeds and pulses to allow you to customize your ‘massage’ experience. With 20 different pulse patterns and 8 speeds, you will be able to customize in all sorts of ways, which I really enjoy doing.

In addition to switching things up every time, I really enjoy that the motor is quiet. I can barely hear it, meaning I am able to enjoy myself, even if I am not home alone! The size makes it easy to carry without being noticed, and yes I have taken it with me on travels too. It has been great, and I found mine for less than $30! Let’s get into the pros and cons shall we?

While I am not brave enough to submerge this small, but powerful massager in water, I have used it in the shower just fine. I have also been able to use it on my travels without anyone knowing, and it is affordable, with so many ways to customize the toy that I have yet to use them all. I look forward to future sessions of exploring the options, and highly recommend the Kasai Aura.

I liked

  •  Multiple speed with 8 options​
  • Multiple pulses with 20 options​
  • Small and discreet enough to carry
  • Motor is quiet, can use almost anywhere​
  • Affordable
  • Waterproof

I didn’t like

  • Not as good quality or stylish as other vibes but it is much cheaper​
  • Mine broke after a few months​​​​

Filed Under: Clitoral vibrator reviews, Reviews

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