Now I know what you’re thinking, ‘who doesn’t have sex naked?’ Apparently, there are a lot of people who feel like it is more comfortable having sex in the cover of dark, blankets, or even clothing. This is considered a normal behavior and it leads them to wondering what if they were naked. Or better yet, what is the appeal of being naked during sex?
However, sometimes being naked isn’t about sex. You have to learn to be comfortable with your body and embracing nudity is a great way to explore and learn to love your body. There are many activities you can do while naked that aren’t sexually related. Some of them more comical than anything, like naked twister. Although, that usually leads to a sexual situation or two.
Finding Comfort in your Body
So you’re naked, now what? Well, now you reflect on your body and pick out things you like about it. Be it your hair, breasts, penis, or whatever you love about your body. Take note of it and really praise those features. Looking at the good of our naked flesh is a great way to become confident and comfortable while you are naked.
Even practicing nudity with your partner, walking about the house, is a great way to grow a bond and find a way to love one another’s body without there being a sexual intention or barrier. Play games, cuddle, do household chores. Just do your everyday activities naked, indoors of course. It is important to embrace this practice to find the comfort you seek.
One activity you can have while naked with your partner is taking a sensual bath or shower together. It can be a nonsexual activity that is still intimate as well as informative. You really get to learn your partner’s body as you help them suds up and wash off. Just the closeness and the couple bond to be comfortable enough to feel vulnerable like that with your partner.
Why Get Naked for Sex
Some find it inconvenient fully undressing for sexual affairs, however that is only really appropriate for fuck buddies and flings. Let’s face it, it is hard to be intimate with your partner while your zipper is scraping the hell out of your erection. Clothes create a barrier that lessens the bond that forms when two people are truly intimate with one another. Loving your partner’s body, as well as your own, is essential for a healthy sexual relationship and should not be scoffed at in the slightest.
Aside from intimacy, other people undress for sex to increase arousal of their partner. Usually in the case of women for men. A sexy strip tease, slow dance, or a sexy peep show is sometimes what it takes to get your partner really going. Undressing for sex is something you can do alone, or do with your partner to add to the mood.
Naked with Clothes On
It is possible to be fully naked during sex while being full, or even partially, clothed. It is the concept of being emotionally naked to your partner. A spiritual nudity if you will. When you are emotionally naked, and vulnerable to your partner, you instill a level of trust between the two of you. Saying I love you, gentle touches, embracing the fact that this person before you are closer to you than anyone else. That is the level of naked that matters more than nudity. Intimacy is about the closeness you have with that special partner. You need to be spiritually and emotionally naked for intimacy to be fully appreciated.
Whether you enjoy sex with or without clothes, if you want to have sex naked, clear of restraint and restrictions, be open with your partner. Explore your body, explore your partner’s body, and most importantly explore their emotional connection with you. It is time we embrace each other’s nakedness of mind, body, and soul. Find he strength to peel off the layers of more than just your clothes. It can be redeeming to find that comfort and connection with someone else, and this is the best way to reach that next level. Nudity is more than sex; it is sensual and vulnerable.