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Lovense Lush and Lovense Lush 2 Review

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This post is going to cover my review of the Lovense Lush and the Lovense Lush 2. For the most part, such as how they work, what they vibrator is intended for and how to use it is exactly the same.  When there’s a difference between the two products it will be clearly stated.

Why did I try out the Lovense Lush 2?

When it comes to sexual pleasure, there are simply times when us ladies have to get creative. That’s where I find my toy collection to be helpful, especially the Lovense Lush.

No matter if you are single and haven’t found that right person for you yet, or if you are in a relationship and looking to enhance the bedroom fun with your partner or maybe your partner is on a business trip or lives in another location?  My partner was spending a lot of time away due to work but I still wanted to feel a sexual connection with him, I’d heard of remote control vibrators and decided to give one a try and chose the Lovense Lush.

The original Lovense Lush is a toy I really liked but it did have some issues

The biggest issue was the connection issue.  It wasn’t as stable as I’d liked, the connection would drop out every so often and if you want to frustrate a woman, have her get close to orgasming and then have her toy stop working due to a dropped connection.

This is similar to the reaction I would have when the connection would drop out

I recently got to try out the Lovense Lush 2 which is the next generation Lush.  The Lovense Lush 2 has a much better connection and doesn’t drop out like the original Lovense Lush.  That was the biggest problem that needed fixing and it was fixed.  The other improvements were that it’s now more powerful and it can be turned on and off while wearing it whilst before you couldn’t do this due to where the button was positioned.

Lovense Lush 2 improvements on the Lovense Lush

  • Better connection
  • More power
  • You can now turn it off while it’s being worn

The Lovense Lush was a toy I really liked, the Lovense Lush 2 is a toy I love.

 

********  UPDATE – FEBRUARY 2020  ********

Check out available promotions on the official Lovense site.  I’m not sure how long the promotions will last so if you’re interested now would be a good time to buy.

 

Quick Facts about the Lovense Lush and Lush 2

It’s a wearable, internal vibrator designed to stimulate the g-spot via your phone or your partners phone. The thinner part does vibrate a little but it will not stimulate your clitoris enough for an orgasm.  The thinner part is there to stabilize the vibrator inside you and it’s also an antenna.  The other way of using this toy is to use the bulbous part (the actual vibrating part) externally to stimulate your clitoris and it will work very well because it’s a very powerful vibrator.  However, its primary use is as a remote control vibrator for your g-spot.  Toys like this even have a fancy tech title – Teledildonics.

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See the pics below to see how it’s worn internally with the antenna not being inserted.

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This toy is designed to be discreet and stay in position better than other wearable vibrators. It can be worn in the bedroom, around the house, even in public like vibrating panties if desired. It really just depends on how naughty you feel like being!

It’s among the strongest remote vibrators on the market.  The Lush is pink, and designed with a curve to hit your G-spot, increasing the pleasure.  Imagine walking around the house, not knowing when your partner will start controlling it, or running errands and trying to hide the emotions or sitting at a cafe together.

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At a cafe and having a little public play…

 

The Lush has an extended Bluetooth antenna, which is flexible which means it’s adjustable to fit your anatomy. It is a leader in range of control, but if worn under cloths (i.e. running errands), this reduces the control range and connection strength. Meaning your partner would need to be close by.

The Smartphone app offers increased range control, allowing your partner to control your Lush, worldwide. The app provides a messaging feature which can be used for scheduling sessions, etc.

Lovense Lush

The Lush is created using high-quality silicone that is very comfortable, and almost silent when inserted. This means less worrying about who is hearing it, and more pleasure from the experience.

Now, let’s cover my experience!

Lovense Nora and Max experience

If you are a fan of the Lovense product line like me, you may have the Max and Nora. These are toys for him and her that connect to each other for fun from anywhere, literally. Because they do not have a limited distance, you can use them to have fun anytime, anywhere.  I know how popular the Max and Nora have been so this made investing in the Lush so much easier for me.

The Unpacking of the Lovense Lush 2

I was tracking my package and was waiting for my mailman to ring the door bell and alert me of a package.   The packaging was discreet, it comes in a brown box without any mention of lovense, inside the brown box is another discreet box (that’s right, two discreet boxes), and then inside that there’s the actual product box.  When the product arrived, It was like Christmas came early.

Once removed from the shipping package, I was presented with an elegant white box with the pink Lush branding and product image. It also highlights the main features, including app control for solo play, discreet public playing, and of course long-distance relationships.

After opening the box, I was presented with the Lush, a curved vibrator unlike anything I’ve ordered before. The curve design is to stimulate the G-spot during playtime, but it also had a flexible Bluetooth antenna coming from it that extends past the body to offer the longest control range (unless using the app, then this is not an issue).

The overall shape appeared somewhat strange to me, so it took a little getting used too.

When it comes to size, the insertable length is roughly 3-inches, while girth is 1.4-inches. Where as the antenna is just under 5-inches.

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Box Included:

  • Lovense Lush 2 (obviously)
  • USB Charging Cable
  • User Manual

Before Using the Lush

First off, prior to using your new Lush you want to wash it to ensure there is no bacteria lingering. To do this, just use hot soapy water. The second step, is making sure it is charged and ready to go by plugging it into a wall adapter or USB port.

This is the first factor where I noticed a difference – It only takes an hour to fully charge, and lasts up to 2 hours of play. That is a faster charge than some of my other toys, and lasts longer too. It gets points here for sure, I can charge while watching Grey’s Anatomy, then…well, fantasize about Mr. Grey’s anatomy.

Tip: The Lush being made with soft, silky silicone for a safe and comfortable experience every time. This means only a water-based lube should be used, because silicone based lubes will cause damage to the material.

Now you are ready to use your new toy. You can use it solo or with your partner. However, if you’re looking to use it over a long distance, both you and your partner need the app installed.

Long Distance Using the App – how it works!

When you want to have fun in a long distance relationship, the first thing you and your partner must do is download and install the app on a smartphone. Once installed, the app provides a simple walkthrough for pairing the app with your Lush and both smartphones.

The app is really easy to use, just check out the below clip for how easy it is to use

When registering the Lush, you will be creating a nickname and password used with connecting your vibrator to the app. Ensure that Bluetooth is on your smartphone. Depending on how technologically inclined you are, it can take a couple minutes, or a bit longer.

Therefore, to setup:

  1. Clean and charge
  2. Download and install app
  3. Follow step by step walkthrough to pair devices – Ensure Bluetooth is active
  4. Control Lush via the phone

Now that your phone has become the pleasure controller thanks to the app, you will be able to use it like a regular remote. To change vibration settings, simply slide or tap the screen. You can also create a custom vibration pattern based on preferences.

Lush can also be used for sound activated vibration, or vibration in sync with music (get that playlist ready). Can you imagine the pulsing and vibrating to your favorite song? Oh, and all the changes and sound activated vibrations are in real-time too!

Feeling spontaneous? The app provides a messaging system that allows partners to schedule and coordinate playtime, or simply tell them to start controlling when ready. It also allows image messaging, so partners can share the experience on either end.

Note: Some may find the app takes some getting used too. But, when it becomes second nature thing can really heat up, no matter the distance!

Here are the different modes of use:

Lush modes

Lush modes

 

To get the app visit the apple store, or google play.  It can also be used with a Windows or Mac enabled computer.

All user guides for Lovense products can be found here.

The most important factor to consider – Performance!

Well, for starters because of the soft silicone material used in the design the initial feeling is soft and smooth. The curve positions nicely on the g-spot, providing great stimulation during use. But, those are just regarding the design. The feeling when used, AMAZING!

While it may look a bit small, it is much stronger when compared to other egg vibes, bullet vibes, or vibrating panties. Overall, the Lush vibrations are strong, providing deep pleasure while being discreet and quiet.

The main purpose of the Lush is to be used as an internal vibrator, while the antenna that extends and will be near your clitoris offers some stimulation to the clitoris the antenna won’t make you orgasm, it’s not meant to, it’s an antenna! If you want clitoris stimulation the Lush can be used externally by using the vibrating part, not the antenna, on your clitoris. This still allows your partner to control the situation, while feeling great.

Even though the Lush provides the longest range of control from any other wearable Bluetooth vibes, I ran into some challenges. The control range while standing is about 10 to 30 feet and if sitting about 5 to 10 feet.  Of course to counter this and have longer range you can use internet control instead of bluetooth.

With regards to the original Lovense Lush, I found that when clothing or other objects hindered the Bluetooth signal, it would disconnect the app from time to time. This got a bit annoying.  If you do decide to try and wear it in public, I recommend playing it out at home first. You want to ensure you are comfortable while walking around with it in. You also want to know how to position it so it remains in place, because it’s hard to re-adjust while in public.

The connection during our public experiment was less than expected. I found that clothes will reduce the Bluetooth’s connection range, but being in direct sight tends to offer a more stable connection. Although, the vibrations are not as strong of course. The Lush is silent enough not to be heard in a crowd. However, in a quiet setting like a library, the chance of being caught increase, between the quiet sounds or the moans.  Overall I loved the concept and the performance.

With regards to the Lovense Lush 2, I didn’t have the same connectivity issues.  I don’t understand the tech behind getting the bluetooth connection to work better, all I know is that it does work better and that’s the most important thing.  It has taken my public play to a whole new level now that I can reliably use the toy in public.

Verdict

  • Great concept
  • Has plenty of power and has given me intense orgasms
  • Can add a lot of spark to your relationship
  • Body-safe materials used

If you are looking for a new toy that gives multiple possibilities, including long-distance play. Then you are going to find that the Lovense Lush is a great go-to. It arrives in a pretty box, and charges quicker than most toys. A single charge can last up to 2 hours, and it’s silent enough to be warn in public without being caught, as long as you don’t moan too loud or use it in a library setting.

This toy can be used solo, but adding a partner to the combination greatly increases the pleasure for both involved.

Price

Considering it’s a fairly high tech toy and is really good quality and performs well the price is really reasonable.

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Check out available promotions on the official Lovense site. I’m not sure how long the promotions will last so if you’re interested now would be a good time to buy.

 

Lovense actually started up via an Indiegogo campaign.

An alternative to the Lovense Lush 2 is the We-vibe Sync.

High tech sex toys will be more prominent in the future:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a12235527/high-tech-sex-toys/

https://www.cnet.com/pictures/high-tech-sex-toys-vibrators-ai-nsfw/

The High-Tech, High Design World of Sex Toys

Sex Pillow – Sex Wedge Guide

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Have you tried just about every position that you can think of and even those that you have found on the internet with your partner in bed? Why not take a chance and explore the world of sex pillows which are a type of sex furniture? Sex pillows and sex swings are the most popular type of sex furniture.  A sex pillow will not only make your sex life a bit better and a little more exotic, but it will also add some comfort for both you and your partner.

Let’s face it there are some positions that we do for partners that can be uncomfortable, but with a sex pillow, it can help to relieve some of that pressure and pain in your muscles and joints from the weird positions that you can think of.

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Okay so what is a sex pillow and what does a sex pillow do? It is basically a special type of pillow that was designed for you to use during various sexual positions. They come in all sorts of shapes but the most common shape for a sex pillow is a wedge that’s why a sex pillow can be called a sex wedge as well.  Some people when they think of a sex pillow think of something like this:

 

 

But no, they generally look like this:

sex wedge

sex wedge

Why buy a sex wedge?

Most people never really consider getting a sex pillow until that moment when sex becomes uncomfortable and begins to hurt. It is especially bad for those who have memory foam beds. If you have back pain, these sex pillows are going to be a god send.  Basically, it doesn’t matter if you have mobility issues or you are just looking to spice up your sex life a bit, you certainly will not go wrong when you invest in a good sex pillow.

These products are going to turn all your favorite positions into the best feeling ever as it removes the strain on your:

  • shoulders
  • hips
  • waist
  • back

Not to mention that they can help you to explore more adventurous positions that you have never been able to do and even add more depth and sensation to your already great sex life.

How to use a wedge pillow for sex:
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grab and go

home on the range

elevated oral

the push up

the rodeo

the over easy

the over easy

the down low

If the above positions don’t get your heart racing at least a little, nothing will.

 

Sex Pillow – what to consider when buying one

When it comes to choosing a great sex pillow there are a few things that you will want to check out, especially if it is your first time purchasing one. You could get overwhelmed by how many options there are on the market. Don’t freak out, as just look for these factors to help you to find the right type of sex pillow for you and your partner, or just for you as sex pillows also make masturbation quite fun.

sex wedge

sex wedge

Think about the size

Sex pillows can be put into 2 categories: wedges and ramps. Ramps are going to be bigger pieces that were made to support your lower torso and entire back, however you can use them in a variety of ways. Wedges are much smaller sex pillows that are meant to add support to certain areas like raising your butt up to allow your partner to penetrate you much deeper when in missionary position.

Now not all ramps and wedges are going to be the same size. They make some that are so large that they take up a heck of a lot of space on the bed, and there are others that are so small that you can discretely hide them under your bed. It is really up to you to figure out what size you are looking for based on your preferences and needs.

Check out material types

Many sex pillows come with 2 parts: the cover and the foam. You are going to want to pick a pillow that is made with a medical grade foam or a high-quality foam. This helps to ensure that you will have a comfortable and soft pillow that is firm enough to give you plenty of support.

Now the cover, is normally made from microfiber and there are some pillows that will come with velvet or other fabric covers. You will want to pick a fabric that can be easily removed and throw in your washer for easy cleaning. Also look for brands that give you a waterproof liner for your foam. This is perfect as it helps to protect your foam from massage oils, lubricants, various liquids and your own body fluids from ruining the foam. This helps your sex pillow to last much longer.

Check out the design

There are some sex wedges and ramps that have just a slope that is pretty plain, then you have the models that have gentle curves. It is up to you on which one will fit your needs. If you have a decent budget, check out both models to see which one will give you the most pleasure during your sexcapades.

Is it portable?

Let’s be honest, some of us travel a lot so ask yourself are your going to need to bring your sex pillow with you or can you just leave it at home. There are some sex pillows that are way to heavy to carry around and are designed to be used at home only, while there are some that are inflatable and can be placed in your suitcase or purse when you are traveling.

Best Sex Pillows for 2020

Okay! Now that you have most of the basics about sex pillows, let’s get shopping for one. You can explore the list below which are great models that you can use. They are the best options that are on the market right now and are highly rated by those who have purchased and used them.

24 Inch Ramp/Wedge Combo by Liberator

Liberator wedge-ramp combo

Liberator wedge-ramp combo

When it comes to sex pillows, this is the Cadillac of models. There are a lot of reasons that it is called the best. Everyone loves the feelings that come with using this model. It is made from a high-density foam and covered with a microfiber cover and it feels super soft. When you have sex on it, you will notice that the sensations from laying on it and being explored make it much more intense.

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The shape of this sex pillow is certainly something that will give you plenty of options to try out especially if you are planning to use the Kama Sutra as way to get more adventurous. The two pieces can work on their own or together when it is needed. Just let your imagination run wild and enjoy the wild ride that you are going to receive on this pillow.

Benefits of the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo

  • Great for missionary and doggy-style positions
  • Helps make position transitions feel effortless
  • Great for plus-size and differing size lovers
  • Lets you try sex on the floor or off-the-bed
  • Cover has an advanced microfiber fabric that causes less slipping and keeps shapes stuck together
  • Provides angles that make the belly look smaller and the penis look larger

https://www.liberator.com/wedge-ramp-combo.html

https://www.liberator.com/wedge.html

Jaz Positioning Pillow by Liberator

If you are not a really heavy person, and you are looking for a bit of variety in sex, then you will love this product. The Jaz is ranked second in rankings. Just take a look at the design of it and really think of all the things that you could do with it. I bet you just started blushing at all the naughty things that just popped into your head. If not, we can throw some suggestions out there for you.

Liberator Jaz

Liberator Jaz

You can do everything from vanilla missionary to doggy and even make it easier for oral on you or your partner. The oval shape of this wedge is perfect for oral and that means giving and receiving. But let’s face it we are all about receiving than giving. The best part of this pillow, is that you can set it for your height, favorite position and variations. Not to mention the price that really helps to take the cake.

https://www.liberator.com/jaz.html

Sex Pillow for Couples by Toughage

Toughage inflatable sex pillow - cylindrical

Toughage inflatable sex pillow – cylindrical

Are you a big fan of anal sex? Or you are wanting to surprise your partner with it sometime? This pillow is one of the best pillows out there for basically any position that your nasty mind can come up with. But the magic of this pillow really happens when you start thinking about anal sex.

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It is a specialized wedge-shaped pillow that is made from some high-grade foam that is super easy to clean, and that goes for the cover as well and it is easy to store because of the shape and size. The wedge shape really holds plenty of options for both you and your partner. So, the worries about reaching maximum penetration are now going to be a think of the past with this great sex pillow. Besides using this pillow for sex, you can also use it in your daily life. It doesn’t even look like a sex pillow. You can use it to rest on and even to give you some support when you are reading books in bed. The versatility of this pillow makes it a multipurpose pillow for sex and your home.

https://www.amazon.com/Toughage-Cylindrical-Inflatable-Portable-cylindricals/dp/B00XKJVMI2

PF3101 Inflatable Sex Pillow for Couples by Toughage

Toughage inflatable sex pillow - PF3101

Toughage inflatable sex pillow – PF3101

If you are a traveler and like to have some fun with your partner or someone else, we aren’t judging, this pillow is one of those products that you can pack up and take with you without people ever knowing what it is until it is inflated. This sex pillow has plenty of perks. It is safe and soft for people of all ages. The foam is elastic enough to keep bouncing back the strokes given for a long time. It can also handle plenty of weight. This is one of those pillows that works for just about anyone.

https://www.amazon.com/Toughage-PF3101-Inflatable-Pillow-Couples/dp/B01N1EW6S2

Dame Products Pillo

Another popular option out there is the Pillo by Dame Products.

Also:

 

Sex Pillow Wrap Up

Now that you have been through which pillows can rock your world that are on the market right now and you have some information about what to look for, it is up to you to get out there and find the sex pillow of your dreams.

 

 

Swing into action with a sex swing

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The value of good sex has come to be recognized by cultures all over the world. Being restricted to just one position brought on monotony to an otherwise enjoyable thing. This led to discoveries of some wonderful positions and methods.  From doggy style to cow girl and 69ing, all these made sex become such a marvelous wonder. Then came BDSM that opened up a whole new approach to sex. For this article we have teamed up with adult movie shop Xvideo. Let’s look at some interesting sexual options in this sex swing guide.

What ​Is A Sex Swing?

A sex swing or an adult swing as they're often called are a type of harness that allow a partner to be suspended in mid air either above the bed or in a clear area.

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This is the look on most peoples faces when they first hear of a sex swing

If you're interested in this type of thing, check out my sex furniture guide for more inspiration!

The design of most swings varies but they generally have a support sling for the back, one for the buttocks and stirrups for the each leg. They can also be suspended from a bungee or a spring to provide bounce. Essentially, they are a form of BDSM. So if you have ever thought of exploring BDSM but you are not sure, you can start with sex swings and work your way into the ever evolving world of BDSM. Frankly, they are really fun and if you are the type of a person who likes to experience new things, you will enjoy every moment of it.

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Everyone enjoys a good swing session!

Sex swings have come to be known as a means to make sex play hot and spicy allowing the users try out new positions and styles with deeper penetration and explosive thrusts due to one person’s body weight being supported. Sex positions that would otherwise have tired you out or worse land you in hospital will be easily achieved. These next level playthings won’t come cheap mind you, but they will definitely bring in a lot of fun in the bedroom. Using a sex swing can even make you laugh a lot with your partner creating some beautiful and naughty memories.

sex swing

sex swing

​Sex Swing Considerations​

​Before we delve into the type of swings available and positions that can be achieved, there is a number of things you need to know.  When you decide to venture into the world of sex swings, look for the one that makes you feel most comfortable. It would be advisable to start with a traditional swing before you try anything a bit more complex.

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Depending on how much you want to explore ask around and do your research to know what best fits you and your partner’s needs.

  • You need to check the weight the swing will be able to handle. Most can handle a fair amount of weight with some even going above 300lbs (136kg). But to be safe, read the product description and specifications for more guidance.
  • Look for a sturdy place where you will be able to suspend it or construct it. Ceiling beams are a good go-to as they are able to support a lot of weight. You can drill a hole and use the attachments that will come with the purchase. Otherwise, fixing it in a weak spot can cause damage and that will leave you having some very awkward conversations with the landlord or emergency room. If you can’t find something that will support the weight then the best bet is getting one with a frame to hang the swing from.
  • Look for something that provides the best level of comfort. Swings that pinch you or bend your back too much are to be avoided. You could try a variety of positions to gauge how well it will be able to support you without any distress at the store.
  • The best thing when purchasing a sex swing is to try different shops because that even helps in gouging the prices. This will prevent you from buying from overpriced by unscrupulous sellers. Once you really get the hang of it then can you safely make the transaction over the internet. But be sure of what you want beforehand.
  • You get what you pay for.  If you buy a cheap option this could happen:


​What are sex swings made of?

They are usually made from leather, nylon, polyester, metal, foam, wood, and other materials like neoprene for soft padding. They come in different varieties.

  • Platforms – Platforms are rigid and leave the back straight. Platforms are hard or soft depending on the padding.
  • Hammock – Hammocks are flexible and curve the body in a natural way thus are very comfortable.
  • Stirrups and straps – Stirrups and straps are where the legs and arms go, they support the legs, arms and back.

​Types of sex swings

​There are ​three main types of swings which include:

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  1. Body Swings - Body swings are harnesses that fit around one partner with the straps, loops and stirrups for the other partner. It needs the holding partner to be a bit strong and have a lot of stamina.
  2. Door Sex Swings - Door swings are made with straps and loops that have two bars which are secured onto a closed door. They are the cheapest among swings, easy to set up and are not a bother to carry when traveling. But they do not offer a lot of flexibility.
  3. ​Fantasy Sex Swings - ​Fantasy swings are suspended from a hook in the ceiling or a sex swing stand and have a hammock or a loop.
Body sex swing

Body sex swing

Door sex swing

Door sex swing

Fantasy sex swing

Fantasy sex swing

Fantasy sex swing with stand

Fantasy sex swing with stand

​​Sex Swing Positions

Now we have come to the fun part. There are a number of sex swing positions that you can do with a sex swing which will blow you and your lover away.

The below sex swing video from youtube will help you learn how to use a sex swing:

  1. Doggy Style In Space - This is best used with a hammock type style of swing. The woman lies face down with the hammock supporting the body. The partner holds on to your hips or thighs and then penetrates either anally or vaginally. The motion allows for deeper and stronger thrusts. And if you’re the lazy type then this is definitely for you.
  2. Swing Missionary - Sit in the swing with your legs spread apart. Use the stirrups for support. As penetration begins, the rocking movement will send you to heaven. The thrusts become deeper and stronger than ever.
  3. Fidget Spinner - Lower the swing set to just above the ground leaving a small amount ofroom. The partner is to lie down on the ground and then lower yourself. Hold on to the straps and your legs should be in the stirrups. When you do so and are low enough to let him penetrate you and then start spinning in a 360 degree motion. This will take your orgasms at a whole other level.
  4. The Magic Carpet 69 - You lean back on the straps with your legs held up by the stirrups. Your partner puts one leg on each side of your head and both of you can start giving some good oral service. The weightlessness of the action will help you swing with ease and give you good motion control.

​Best Sex Swings 2020

Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit

Key Features:

  • Door jam sex swing for comfortable support during upright intimacy
  • Sturdy acrylic barbells offer reliable support over any closed household door
  • Strong Nylon, cushioned Neoprene and sturdy stirrups and handles offer durability and comfort
  • Easy pack down with no permanent fixtures
  • Suitable for weights up to 325lbs/ 23 stone 3lbs / 147.4 KG
Sportsheets door jam sex swing

Sportsheets door jam sex swing

https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=20331

https://www.sportsheets.com/products/door-jam-sex-sling

Trinity sex swing

​A really popular option from Extreme Restrains

Trinity sex swing

Trinity sex swing

https://www.extremerestraints.com/trinity-sex-swing.html

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing

​​​​​Key features:

  • Torsion spring for weightless sex experience
  • Swing rotates 360 degrees
  • Fully adjustable, extra-wide nylon straps
  • Large padded supports for back and butt
  • Soft padded stirrups provide maximum comfort
  • Safe, comfortable, easy to use
  • Quick and easy to install
  • Comes complete and fully assembled
  • Installation hardware included
  • Suggested weight limit not to exceed 350 lbs.
  • Free fantasy eye mask

​https://www.adameve.com/sexy-extras/liberators-position-aids/sex-swings/sp-fetish-fantasy-spinning-swing-85885.aspx

​Sex Swing Wrap up

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​The sex positions that you are able to do with sex swings are only limited by your imagination.There are so many more for you to discover. So do not limit yourself to just the basics but explore different avenues, techniques and styles. Learn what is good for both you and your partner. Speak to your partner on what makes you comfortable and what makes you excited. Make sure both of you are on the same page. It is a world that will bring both of you wonderful orgasms and therefore it has to be fun for both people. But remember, always put safety first and don’t go trying moves you are not sure about.

How to Make Fake Cum

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This is a pretty interesting article since there isn’t a lot of information about this online. But, it’s vital for women that are interested in and regularly using a squirting dildo. Those dildos require the ammunition which can turn out to be very expensive if you start buying from those fancy manufacturers. Those big bottles of cum might look like the real juice, but they certainly will take a big chunk from your purse. So, in order to save you your hard-earned money and still come up with a liquid you can use in your dildos, we came up with a recipe that could possibly make your life so much more easier. We can’t really guarantee how well it takes since some of the stuff used is pretty bitter, but the looks, feel and texture of the end result, given you follow the instructions the right way, will definitely exceed your expectations. Let’s get into the recipe for crème de la penis!

Fake Cum Recipe

Required Ingredients

There aren’t a lot of things required. The ingredients are just basic household eatable items that you’re going to find in your fridge. Components required to create about a glass full of cum are:

  • Eggs (one)
  • Sour Cream (1 tablespoon) / Yogurt
  • Corn Starch (2 tablespoons)
  • Salt (To taste; seems weird saying this with a recipe to make cum)
  • Water (Just a cup)

Method

Well, we’re not exactly on the set of the next MasterChef, but yeah, we’re still going to pretend this is a Gordon Ramsay recipe book and label this paragraph as “The Recipe”. It may seem corny, but the way you’re going to prepare fake cum will seem like you’re just about to prepare a Sunday brunch. Before we create more similarities between fake cum and edible foods, we should move on to the recipe.

So, we’re only going to be working with the five key ingredients listed above. The fake cum recipe is fairly simple. You start of by boiling a cup of water in a pot. Bring that up to a light simmer and start adding the rest of the ingredients. You’re going to want to start off with the corn starch. Add 2 tablespoons of the corn starch. Cook the mixture on a medium stove and keep stirring. The corn starch should start mixing up and getting thick in about 2-3 minutes. Once the mixture is no longer runny, take the pot off the stove. Now, it’s time to ask rest of the goodies to your fantastic pot of cum (for the record, it was quite difficult to avoid the phrase ‘cumtastic’).

At this point, you can add the egg and start stirring your mixture once again. Make sure you’re really thorough because those egg whites can be challenging to mix completely. Then add a teaspoon of sour cream, and you guessed it, keep on stirring. At this point, your mixture is going to start looking like the real deal. The only thing left to do is add some salt. A pinch should be enough, but you’re free to use as much as you deem appropriate.

Taste Test

Yeah, we’re not going to lie. This cum isn’t going to taste very good. Sure, it can be considered edible but if you had two choices; drink this cum or die of thirst, you’re probably going to choose the second. However, cum isn’t going to be too delicious, is it? It’s supposed to taste weird and if that weirdness is what you’re looking for, then our recipe will more than satisfy. If prepared right, the egg you mixed in will make you gag and achieve the true purpose of swallowing cum (yeah, don’t quote us on this one).

Best Fake Cum

This is just a homemade recipe, if you’re looking for something that comes out of the box and is actually pretty good then we have a few products that are going to be loads better (pun definitely intended) than any homemade cum.

Master Series Jizz

Master Series Jizz

Master Series Jizz

This is probably the best fake cum you can purchase on the market. The real notable feature of this product is the scent. No one will ever say this, but the fragrance of this cum is absolutely amazing and just like the actual stuff. The texture is also spot on, it’s thick and not too thick at the same time. The fluid is water based, meaning that it can work with all silicone toys. The look and smell might be amazing, but word of warning, it’s not a good idea to swallow this cum. It tastes absolutely horrendous.

https://www.amazon.com/Master-Water-Based-Semen-Scented/dp/B00E1Q8RMC

Bad Dragon Cum Lube

Bad Dragon Cum Lube

Bad Dragon Cum Lube

The Bad Dragon is a great product for folks that want to be absolutely drenched in cum. It comes in a huge container and is great for bukkake and every related to it. The product is unscented and is really easy on sensitive skin. You should definitely purchase the Bad Dragon is skin allergies are a concern for you.

 

Similar to the Master Jizz, Bad Dragon is water-based which makes it compatible with most sex toys.

https://bad-dragon.com/products/cumlube

Squirtz Cum Lube

Squirtz is another popular option in the world of fake semen. This product by CyberSkin is water-based but it can last a much longer than any other water-based tube. You could even use it as lubrication and it’ll do an amazing job.

Squirtz Cum Lube

Squirtz Cum Lube

Just like the Bad Dragon, Squirtz is easy on the skin plus it’s a piece of cake to clean. However, one added feature of the Squirtz is that it has the component of taste down as well. The liquid tastes a lot like cum, is completely unscented and looks a whole lot like that beautiful cum too. So, overall, if you’re looking for the closest thing to actual semen, then the Squirtz is the best option for you on this list.

https://simplipleasure.com/products/squirtz-cum-lube-unscented-63-fl-oz

Spunk Lube also have a great product as well.

Squirting Dildo Buying Guide With Recommendations

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​When it comes to shopping for dildos, there are many options to choose from such as your basic silicone dildos, to your realistic Cyberskin designs with vein textures, to dildos molded after porn stars etc.  However, when you want a dildo that is as similar to the real deal as you can possibly get without actually using the real deal, you'll want a money shot so then you may want to learn more about squirting dildos to complete the realism.

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​Sort of how squirting dildos work lol!

​Squirting dildos are commonly called ejaculating dildos or cumming dildos, which allows the user to make the dildo ejaculate (squirt/cum/jizz, you get the picture) when ready.

If you're into experimenting with your sexuality I highly recommend orgasming in public!  WTF you say?  Check out my vibrating panties guide so you can discreetly orgasm in public.  We all like to get a little naughty from time to time!

Summary of my hard work.

DildoRating
Bust It by Doc Johnson
Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo set
Check price at Love Honey		4.7

The high quality option.

Good size and the cum actually looks real and the actual cumming function works well.

Read review
Derek Ejaculating dildo
Derek ejaculating dildo size
Check price at amazon		3.6

Too big. Way too big. Seriously, a 7 inch circumference is monstrous.

Read review
Squirting Dildo with Vibration
SexFlesh ejaculating dildo
Check price at amazon		3.5

Vibrations aren't strong enough, like not even close. The odor and taste aren't ideal either...

Read review

​Now ​it’s time to look a little deeper into how these next level dildos work!

What to Look For in a Squirting Dildo

Size

Like any other dildo you buy, you should consider shape, size, and material. If you are new to adult toys or unsure of what size is best, you can always use the cucumber test to accurately determine the size.

doc johnson ejaculating dildo

A realistic option

Shape

There are different types of shapes, including textures available. Dildos with ridges and bumps create a larger feel, and vein textures are more life-like.

Material

There are various materials, but silicone is among the most common as it is easier to clean and maintain. If you have allergies to certain materials, such as latex you need to consider the materials carefully.  Anything that you put inside you must be body safe, it must be phthalate free.  Do not buy a dirt cheap option because it could be dangerous to your health.

Color

You can also get a variety of colors

Black squirting dildo

The most common colors available are white, black and brown

How Do Ejaculating Dildos Work?

The main reason you're buying a cumming dildo is for the money shot otherwise it's just a dildo.  After you have an idea of what you want aesthetically, prior to purchasing a squirting dildo you should understand how they work, let’s take a look.

ejaculating dildo

Example of the realism of a squirting dildo!

An ejaculating dildo works by ejecting a lubricant or fake cum, which has a similar appearance and texture of semen.  The lubricant is designed to safely be ejaculated inside of the vagina, or on the skin. This means you will be able to have the sexual stimulation you desire from a dildo, while having the option to take your stimulation and desires to another level.

The Lubricant/Jizz

The first thing to consider after purchasing your new squirting play toy is, what are you filling it with?

There are several areas to consider here, with your health being the first. Like with the material, if you are allergic to any specific lubricants or chemical properties used in certain lubes – Don’t Use Them!


You want to ensure the lube is not only designed for safe use, but safe for you and your new toy. In addition to making sure the lubricant is safe for you, you need to make sure it is safe for your toy (depending on the material). For example, if you purchased a silicone based toy, you want to use lube designed for silicone.


There are many options when it comes to lubricant for ejaculating dildos, and some of them such as the Doc Johnson Realistic Ejaculating 6-Inch Cock allows you to play around with the recipe! This means you can use your favorite lube, use the included recipe, or create your own fake cum based on your desires. There are even flavored lubricants available, just in case you want to practice your oral skills!

You can also buy some store bought options:

  1. Master Series Jizz
  2. Spunk lube
  3. Bad Dragon Cum Lube
  4. Squirtz Cum Lube
Have I got your attention

​I'm listening

Preparing It

Before you start your play session, you will need to fill the dildo with the semen-like lubricant so it is prepared and ready when you are. A squirting dildo is designed a little different that a regular dildo, that is, it has the added feature of a trigger. Generally, you will find that ejaculating dildos have a hand pump attached to them that allow you to easily trigger the dildo (penis) to ejaculate on command.

King cock cumming dildo

Shows the hand pump down the bottom

Although designed to ejaculate, you can choose not to fill a squirting dildo with the lubricant and simply use it as a regular dildo. This is common for those with the occasional fantasy or urge to get messy, but do not want a mess to clean up every time.  For more info check out how to use a dildo.

Sometimes though, it's good to get messy.

mandy lee squirt

​It's fun to get a little crazy

The Aftermath

While preparing the lube for your big finish, you should consider the aftermath. Once you have had your fun and get that big finish you have been craving, you are left with the task of cleaning up. The clean-up could be simple, messy or no clean up required depending on a few factors. For instance, if you decide not to fill it with lubricant, you will not have any mess, but no squirting finish. If you fill your toy just slightly, you can have a small finish with minimal clean up. However, if you purchased a large ejaculating dildo with the fantasy of getting real naughty and you fill it completely with your semen recipe, things could get quite wild and, well very messy.

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If you plan to slightly fill your toy, it should be safe to assume clean-up is easy, but if you are wanting a huge finish then you may want to prep the area prior to starting. For instance, putting a towel or blanket down that can easily be washed afterwards. Having a mattress cover may be a good idea as well, just to be safe.

You'll probably want to shower afterwards.  Who knows, you'll might even be singing in the shower.

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​The happy clean up

Partner Play

Squirting dildos are not just for solo activities, and can be enjoyed by partners as well. When using an ejaculating dildo to get warmed up, your partner can enjoy the pleasures of the lube inside you too. Also, for those with the desire of being extra naughty, it can create the simulation of a threesome and an even larger finish.

Other dildo uses

​​There are many other uses for dildos you may not have considered.  ​The below youtube vids are obviously jokes but we could all do with more laughter in life!

Best Cumming Dildo in 2020

​Most people fail to acknowledge that sexual climax is as important as the initial engagement of sex. For many females the visualization of a man climaxing is a major turn on, so why not get that when you decide to please yourself?  In today's tech-savvy world it is possible to recreate this with dildos.

These dildos cum is as real as a man's semen as it ejaculates lube that is as thick and musty scented as the real thing.  When purchasing an ejaculating dildo, it is advisable to also buy the lube produced by the same manufacturer so as to avoid any problems with the sex toy.

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​The following are a few from a wide selection of ejaculating dildos we’d recommend

#1 Bust It – Squirting Realistic Cock by Doc Johnson

For a start, it's made by a reputable company that we all know and love.  Anything that is inserted into me has to be body safe and the Bust It ejaculating dildo is phthalate-free and body safe.  It's made in America so you know that the quality control process is highly regulated unlike products made overseas.

Doc Johnson Bust it squirting realistic dildo

The first thing I love about it is just how realistic it is.  It is absolutely top quality.  I also love that it has a suction cap that actually works which will give you a bunch of ways to use the dildo, so many dildos don't have good quality suction caps.  I rode this bad boy without the hassle of having to attach it back to the bench.  The suction cap is also removable so if you want to use it without the suction cap you can.  Variety is the spice of life!  I also love the fact that I'm in complete control, the dildo blows exactly when I want it to, never too early!  That makes it a lot of fun because I'm guaranteed to be finished before the dildo has finished.

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​Oh yeah!

Using a cumming dildo really enhances the experience and I must admit that now most of the time I use a dildo I use the Doc Johnson Bust it because having a cumming dildo really adds to the experience for me.  It just wouldn't be sex if there wasn't some mess to clean up at the end.

It includes 1 oz of "Nut butter" which is basically a jizz replacement.  I liked it, most of the time the quality of the jizz substitute for ejaculating dildos is really poor but the "Nut butter" is probably as good as you'll get.  I haven't got any better.

  • The total length is just over 9"
  • Usable length is 7"
  • Circumference is just under 6"
  • It comes in 3 colors, white, black and brown.

​What we liked

  • ​Realistic
  • ​Nut butter is realistic and good quality
  • ​Reputable brand
  • ​Body safe materials
  • Made in America

​What we didn't like

  • ​I would have liked it to have come with more nut butter​
​Check price

#2. Derek Ejaculating dildo

Derek ejaculating dildo size

​Size of Derek Ejaculating dildo

​This one of a kind dildo is among the best you will find in the market. At twelve inches long and over 7 inches of circumference it’s going to take you some time before you can comfortably accommodate its full length and girth. Its realistic detailed craftsmanship from the tip to its shaft are designed to reward your erotic needs but it is just too big for most.  If you can accommodate it, you'll have a good time but I'm just not a fan of massive over the top dildos.  The ball sack on this dildo holds about half an ounce of liquid, and are easy to fill.​​​​

Derek ejaculating dildo

​What we liked

  • Easy to fill with liquid
  • Looks realistic
  • Decent price

​What we didn't like

  • Too big
  • Ejaculate wasn't as realistic as others
​Check price

#3. Squirting Dildo with Vibration

​​This ejaculating dildo needs 2 AA batteries to power it. It is 8.25 inches long and 2 inches wide. You load the dildo with come through suction.  Just press the balls while the tip is inside a bowl full of liquid. The dildo can be used as a vibrator as well but because it's so big, the vibrations just aren't good enough for me.

SexFlesh ejaculating dildo

​The odor isn't great and neither is the taste.  It gets dirty easy and the way it cums isn't great.  It works fine with water, but not with lube where as I and most others don't want the cum to be water, we want it to be reasonably realistic.  

​What we liked

  • ​I like novelty and this item has some novelty

​What we didn't like

  • ​The odour
  • The taste
  • Doesn't cum great when filled with realistic jizz. Only works well with water
  • Vibrations aren't powerful enough
​Check price

Squirting Dildo Benefits

  • For those with fantasies of semen, a squirting dildo allows you to safely and privately fulfill those fantasies, without anyone ever knowing (unless of course you want them to know).
  • Can increase stimulation during partner play, or spice things up when things start to get old and boring.
  • Many products allow you to choose the lubricant or semen recipe you prefer, allowing you to customize the experience even further.

Squirting Dildos Disadvantages

  • The number one disadvantage to these type of toys is likely the aftermath, as it is easy to get lost in the moment and enjoy yourself, but then realize the area looks like the local baker went crazy with the extra glaze…
  • May not be as discreet as other types of dildos
  • Unlikely to give you an orgasm.  If a g-spot orgasm is what you're after, you can't go past a g-spot vibrator.

If a cumming dildo isn't for you but you still want a dildo, check out my guide to the best dildos.

We-Vibe Rave Review

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If you’re a sex toy fanatic, there’s a good chance that you own at least a couple We-Vibe toys. They’re highly consistent with the quality of their toys. And, even though the Rave looks like an overgrown, purple banana, it’s an amazing g-spot vibrator. With that being said, let’s tell you exactly how we came to this conclusion by giving you a rundown of what’s included inside this toy.

We-Vibe Rave

We-Vibe Rave

Packaging

We-Vibe is always amazingly creative with the packaging and also come up with some unique / sleek designed box for their toys. The Rave comes in a beautiful white box. We-Vibe always keep nudity off of their packaging, and it’s definitely appreciated with the Rave. Inside the box, the Rave sits prettily on white foam. Other contents of the box include a white charger, a satin pouch and an instruction manual. The pouch mentioned is pretty roomy and can carry all the other contents of the box, making Rave extremely portable and best for women on the go.

Material

Just like any standard We-Vibe toy, the Rave is made from 100% medical-grade silicone material. This is, by far, the best silicone that We-Vibe could possibly have in their toy. It’s non-porous, phthalates-free and completely body/skin safe. The silicone used in this specific toy has a matte and silky finish which does feel spectacular inside you.

The Rave isn’t waterproof, so do be careful of that. It’s splash-proof, but think twice before taking this for a dip in the bath tub.

Design

This toy is pretty weirdly built if we’re being honest. It’s not straight, nor is it uniformly bent, it’s somewhere in the middle where it looks like someone forcibly bent it out of shape. It looks flexible and often gets mistaken for a toy that could be shaped. But, this toy is amazingly rigid and is fabulous for women that want immense pressure directly on their G-Spot.

The Vibrations

The Rave is strong, and when we mean strong, we mean STRONG. If you’re new to sex toys or have a sensitive vagina, then you will not be able to endure the toy at maximum strength. Most of the time, vibrators have a silicone body that pulls a pillow on the blunt vibrations, but fortunately, that’s not the case with the Rave. This toy is highly recommended for women that are not scared of getting wrecked by their toy, and with a ten different vibration patterns, wrecked is what you’ll be.

The best part about the vibrations, they’re not loud! Somehow, We-Vibe managed to fit a tractor’s amount of power and gave it the sound of a TV remote. The sound is light enough that it would be muffled under a blanket and won’t even go across the room. So, if you’re living with people that shouldn’t know of your devious activities, then the Rave is a good product to go with.

 

https://we-vibe.com/rave

LELO Ina 2 review

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Who in the sex toy world doesn’t know of the legendary LELO? The folks come up with some of the most spectacular toys mankind has ever seen and they certainly aren’t disappointing anyone with the product we have here today. A major upgrade to the Ina, the Ina 2 is one of the best rabbit vibrators you could possibly buy. To clarify our explanation, here’s a rundown of all the specs in the Ina 2.

Lelo Ina 2

Lelo Ina 2

Packaging

LELO is known for their amazingly fancy packaging and they certainly didn’t disappoint with the Ina 2. The vibrator comes in a fancy purple box, matching the color of the toy. The insides however, are colored matte black. Overall, the packaging is extremely satisfying to open. It feels like you’re giving yourself a small gift, or a token of appreciation.

 

Other than the toy itself, the box contains some other goodies to go with your new purchase as well. There is a lockable pouch for travelling, a charging cord, a packet of LELO lubricant, and a user manual. There’s no batteries in the box itself because the Ina 2 comes with rechargeable batteries already installed.

Material

Well, you can already guess that LELO wouldn’t use a material that could possibly be harmful. They never have and they probably never will. The Ina 2 is made using medical-grade, body-safe silicone that is 100% phthalates-free. Apart from that, the Ina 2 is also completely waterproof.So, keep on enjoying the immense pleasure of the Ina 2 without even a shred of worry!

The Features

Let’s delve into the technical aspects of the Ina 2. Just like any decent rabbit vibrator, this thing comes with two separate motors; one for the shaft and one for the rabbit head. Both are completely silent so discreet play is pretty easy with the Ina 2. The shaft and the rabbit are designed to be a bit apart from one another to make positioning easier.

 

The battery on this rabbit vibrator is absolutely insane. Considering the fact that the toy has to run dual motors, its really surprising that it has the play time it does. It takes two hours to charge the battery and it lasts exactly four hours long. Yup, you read that right. In a world where you have to charge a toy for an hour to get 30 minutes of playtime, LELO went above and beyond and equipped their toy with the finest pair of batteries they could get their hands on.

There are four buttons of the shaft to control all the settings of the toy. There are total of eight modes that can used during play. They are:

  • Both Motors Enabled
  • Shaft Enabled
  • Ears Enabled
  • Alternate Vibrations of Both
  • Transition Between the Two Every Second
  • Pulsing the Two Ever Second
  • Escalating from Shaft to Ears
  • Randomized Vibrations throughout the toy

The toy can be purchased directly from Lelo – https://www.lelo.com/ina-2

Where’s my head at?

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The last 6-12 months I haven’t been anywhere near as active on the blog as I would have liked.  Basically I took a bit of a hiatus.  I had so much going on in my life that I didn’t have the emotional or mental energy to deal with the blog.  At some stages in life you have more going on than others and it turns out that the last 6-12 months were super hectic for me.  Nonetheless I’ve come out the other end I feel a better person.  Having said that I’ve definitely become more cynical and have a harder edge but that’s life.

What I’ve learnt is that you really have to enjoy the great times because they won’t last forever. You also need to understand that there will be tough stages in life also.  We all go through them but it’s important to just keep on fighting on.

How it has impacted my sexuality is that my sex drive decreased.  Over the last couple of months I feel that my sex drive has slowly been coming back though and now it’s as big as ever.  These things take time and life is all about momentum, change doesn’t happen in an instant.  It took months to get to feel like myself again but I’m back now and feel that I’m myself again.

Going forward I can’t wait to explore my sexuality more with vibrators, dildos and some kinkier stuff like butt play.  Who knows ho kinky I’ll get?  The journey will be a lot of fun and there’ll be plenty of orgasms along the way so stay tuned.

How to Use a Vibrator

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First off, let us just reassure you once and for all that there is nothing wrong with not knowing how to use a vibrator. We may live in a world where Fifty Shades of Grey has become an integral part of pop-culture references but it has started to make things which should come with a caution label look easy and second nature, so much so that most women have started judging themselves for simply not knowing how to use one. What they forget is what turns you on is purely based on instinct. It’s really a method of trial and error, you learn what you like based on instinct and then you go on there.

But, if you’re still wondering how to use a vibrator, then here are eight steps that can help you along the way.

1. Be confident

There’s no shame in wanting to explore your sexuality.  It’s all about enjoying yourself.  Orgasming and exploring your sexuality are some of the biggest pleasures in life and you shouldn’t feel any shame or guilt in using a vibrator.  In fact, you should be super excited because you’re on a journey of self discovery…  The best type of self discovery, the type that leads to lots and lots of orgasms!

2.     Know What Your Vibrator is designed for…

The first thing you need to do as soon as you get a vibrator is to figure out exactly what it is designed to do. Vibrators tend to come in all shapes and sizes, with some being multi-purpose, while others are designed for one specific reason. The purpose of vibrators these days range from basic internal stimulation, clitoral stimulation and to stimulate both the clitoris and g-spot at the same time (generally called rabbit vibrators).

Once you have figured out the purpose of your vibrator, it is time to get to know how your vibrator actually works. In order to do this, you need to understand the various vibration intensities and patterns the vibrator is accompanied with. These are responsible for the pulsating of the vibrator and will play a key role using your vibrator. Most vibrators also come with instruction manuals. Thus, it is always a good idea to thoroughly read the manual before you dive into the deep end with the toy.  Looking up instructions online will also prove to be a good thing because the more knowledge you have on a topic, the chances of you being nervous decrease significantly. While you are at it, it might also be a good idea to look up product reviews online as well. This way you get to see how your toy performed for other users and that would give you an idea about how you can use it too.

3.     Get in the Mood

Once you have acquired all the knowledge that you can get about your toy, it is time to dive into actually using it. But, the first thing you have got to do is get yourself in the mood to play with yourself. The pulsations produced by vibrators tend to be extremely intense. Thus, keep yourself from getting uncomfortable and play with your new toy only when you are extremely ready to go ahead and get yourself some or start off on the lowest possible setting. If it’s still too much vibration for you use the vibrator on top of your panties to help decrease the vibration level.

Do whatever you need to do to get your pulse-rate going, read erotica, put on some porn, fantasize, as long as it gets your blood flowing, it is good enough to get you in the mood. Now, once you have done what you needed to do, turn the vibrator on. It’s not time just yet to put it between your legs and go to town with it. But, it certainly is a good idea to tease yourself with the toy on various parts of your body, just to familiarize yourself with the sensation your toy produces.

4.     Lots of Lube

Whether you are playing with a vibrator, having sex or simply masturbating, using a whole lot of lube is the way to go if you’re using an internal vibrator.  It not only helps the toy glide against your skin, keeping the tugging and scratching sensation at bay, but the sort of sensations it produces give you a whole new territory to explore. You can use any sort of lube you would like. Most recommend using a high-quality water-based lube, but you should always look up what kind of lube works best with your toy. As a rule of the thumb, always remember. Do not use silicone based lubes for toys made with silicone.

5.     Go Slow

If you are a first-time user, trust us when we say this: using a vibrator directly on your genitals on full power setting is calling for disaster. Turn the power settings on the vibrator on the lowest, using the basic pattern i.e. a constant vibration instead of a pulsing one for the start. Eventually, once you familiarize yourself with the toy or you have been playing with it for a while, you can increase the power setting and experiment with what feels good to you. But, until you are sure of what you want, it is always a good idea to ease into it.

6.     Level of Contact

Most women like to have the vibrator in direct contact with their clitoris. Others prefer a barrier of sort between the two like panties. It can be anything really. You can choose to hold the vibrator against the labia so that your clitoris gets stimulated indirectly. Or, you can keep your underwear on and try stimulating the clitoris with the vibrator. You can also use a sheet or a towel to achieve similar effects.

7.     Stimulate your Hot Spots

As mentioned earlier, most vibrators are designed for one exclusive purpose, or to use externally. Since most women need direct clitoral stimulation to climax, it makes the most sense to get yourself a vibrator that works externally. But, at the same time, you can choose to purchase one that works with internal stimulation so you can play with your erogenous zones and see what works for you. Most women prefer the in and out motion, which helps in G-spot stimulation. With the G-spot situated right underneath your abdomen, even the slightest pressure on the area can help you with your adventures.

8.     Experiment

So, there you have it. Once you have a grip on all the basics, it’s time that you start mixing things up and experiment with what you like and how you like it. Increase the intensity, decrease it, add a pulsing pattern to the mix, do whatever works for you and see what you like best.

And, do not forget to have fun!

Kasai Aura review

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UPDATE 2020 – DISCONTINUED

For women who are looking for an elegant toy like myself, the Kasai Aura may be just the one you are looking for. After trying it out, it quickly turned into the one I did not know I was looking for, and often one of my go to toys on those lonely nights by myself. But, the fun is only enhanced when you bring it out and let your partner use it on you! Okay, we better get on with the review before I get too worked up!

Kasai Aura

Kasai Aura

My Kasai Aura is purple, because it is my favorite color. The design is high quality and provides an elevated massage, which can be used on any part of the body. This thing is good for relaxing, working out cramped muscles, and that fun play time. That makes this little thing a good investment, and very discreet at the same time.  Not as discreet as a homemade vibrator though.  The size is small, making it a breeze to reach various parts of the body.

It is made with 100% silicone and the surface is waterproof, but I would not submerge it under water. It can be charged using a regular plug or a USB. This means you can always have it ready for your needs. It also has multiple speeds and pulses to allow you to customize your ‘massage’ experience. With 20 different pulse patterns and 8 speeds, you will be able to customize in all sorts of ways, which I really enjoy doing.

In addition to switching things up every time, I really enjoy that the motor is quiet. I can barely hear it, meaning I am able to enjoy myself, even if I am not home alone! The size makes it easy to carry without being noticed, and yes I have taken it with me on travels too. It has been great, and I found mine for less than $30! Let’s get into the pros and cons shall we?

While I am not brave enough to submerge this small, but powerful massager in water, I have used it in the shower just fine. I have also been able to use it on my travels without anyone knowing, and it is affordable, with so many ways to customize the toy that I have yet to use them all. I look forward to future sessions of exploring the options, and highly recommend the Kasai Aura.

I liked

  •  Multiple speed with 8 options​
  • Multiple pulses with 20 options​
  • Small and discreet enough to carry
  • Motor is quiet, can use almost anywhere​
  • Affordable
  • Waterproof

I didn’t like

  • Not as good quality or stylish as other vibes but it is much cheaper​
  • Mine broke after a few months​​​​

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