Vibrators and masturbation for females are still a bit of a taboo in today’s society. Guys always talk about masturbating and it’s a badge of honor to them the more they do it and talk about it. Unfortunately for females, it’s a bit of a different story. I’m hoping to change a bit of that. I’m here to help you select the best vibrator for your needs and also to help females with masturbation techniques and tips so that you can get the most out of your adventures.
I’m listening
Vibrators are the best sex toys for women and selecting the best vibrator for your needs will always be based on your individual preferences. There are however, some things you should consider before buying a vibrator that will help ensure that you choose one that you’ll actually enjoy using.
This is a really long article so in the below table I’ll give a summary of all my hard work!
My favorites!
cheers
| Vibrator | Rating (out of 5) | Price | Type |
|---|---|---|---|
| Lelo Nea 2 Check price at lelo.com | 4.9 This is a luxury vibrator and is as good as it gets. Its vibrations rumble beautifully giving a deep and intense orgasm, it fits perfectly in your palm, is really quiet, is super stylish and has all the power you need. Read review | High | Clit |
| We-Vibe Tango Check price at lovehoney.com | 4.8 It just takes one to tango. It’s super quiet, it’s vibrations are rumbly and it’s performance is just phenomenal. It’s not as stylish as the Lelo Nea 2 but it’s not as expensive. Read review | Mid | Clit |
| Lelo Soraya Check Price at Lelo.com | 4.8 The best luxury rabbit option It’s so classy and stylish it’s a great gift option. Read full review | High | Rabbit |
| Happy Rabbit 2 Check price at Love Honey | 4.6 The best mid priced option for a rabbit vibrator. It has flexible ears so you can adjust them so that they surround your clitoris perfectly. The head of the shaft has some flex to it as well, so you can tailor the angle to suit your body. Review | Mid | Rabbit |
| Lelo Mona 2 Check price at lelo.com | 4.7 This is the best option if you’re looking for a vibe for your g-spot. Very quiet and is curved perfectly to hit the g-spot. The vibrations just seem to hit at a deeper level. I love it. Suits beginners and experienced users. Read review | High | G-spot |
| Fifty Shades Darker Desire Explodes Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator Check price at Love Honey | 4.5 Best value vibrator for your g-spot. It is absolutely fantastic, has wonderful rumbly vibrations and provides much better value than the Mona 2 BUT it’s very loud so many find it a turn off. | Mid | G-spot |
| Lelo Lyla 2 Check price at Lelo | 4.5 This vibrator is for those looking for some naughtiness in their life. It can be used in public…Read my review to find out more | High | Clit |
| Massaging Wand Check price at Amazon | 4.4 10 pulsation patterns, 8 different speeds and quiet. | Mid | Clit |
| Hitachi Magic Wand Check price | 4.1 This is the most discreet vibrator but it probably has too much power for most. Read review | Mid | Clit |
| Doc Johnson Pocket Rocket Plus Check price | 4.0 Best budget option but you do get what you pay for Read review |
Factors I consider when rating a vibrator
The #1 factor to consider is PERFORMANCE – Does it hit the spot?
This is the big one, does it give you an orgasm or does it give you an OMG ORGASM!!!
This is the type of orgasm you want
Not this
Types of vibrations?
When it comes to stimulating the clitoris, there’s one massive factor you have to take into consideration: are the vibrations “buzzy” or “rumbly”?
Rumbly vibrations are what you’re after, they’re deep and penetrating and give you a better orgasm.
Buzzy vibrations will generally leave you numb if you use them for a long session. They’re also a pain for your hand because after using one your hand gets tired and feels like you’ve been writing all day. They’re fine for a quick session but rumbly vibrations are much better and kinder to your clit. 95% of your clit is actually under the surface, sort of like an iceberg… The rumbly vibrations stimulate the clit at a deeper level than the buzzy type which seem to just stimulate the visible part of the clit. You want to have as much fun as possible!
Oh yeah!
Material
Obviously you want something safe but some vibrator materials just feel better than others.
Price
If one option costs twice as much as another option but they have the same performance, obviously I’ll prefer the less expensive option.
Noise level
My pet hate with vibrators is the noise level. I really don’t like loud ones. Sometimes you’re 80% in the mood, not 100% in the mood but think hey, I’d like to kill some time or get some frustration out and in those cases having what sounds like a couple of bees buzzing in your ear can be a massive turn off. You might also draw too much attention to yourself at the wrong time.
Power source
Another preference I have is for rechargeable vibrators instead of battery operated vibrators or vibrators that get plugged into a power socket. The reason I don’t like battery operated toys is because they can run out of batteries or lose their power at the WORST time which leaves you furious. And I do mean furious. Hell hath no fury as a woman who’s vibrator has died on her mid-session. I hate having my sessions interrupted, let alone batteries dying on me. I’m not a massive fan or corded toys as well because the cords just get in the way.
With USB or rechargeable toys, after you use and then clean your toy you can just charge it to full charge again and never have to worry about running out of power at the wrong time…
And it’s more eco-friendly to not throw batteries into land fill. Even my orgasms should be eco-friendly!
Discretion
Not so important to me but I understand it can be very important to my many. Some have fears that this might happen…
Ease of cleaning
I take hygiene very seriously but I don’t like cleaning, I’ve got better things to do with my time. So I want a product that’s easy to clean, preferably water proof so that I don’t have to be too careful when I’m cleaning and can get the job done fast.
Aesthetics
I’m just not a fan of plastic, cheap looking toys. I have a preference for stylish items.
Types of vibrators
When buying a vibrator, the first thing you have to figure out is what type of vibrator you want, one that stimulates the:
- Clitoris – best for beginners
- G-spot – check out the g-spot vibrator buying guide
- Both the clitoris and the g-spot – Check out the rabbit vibrator buying guide
This is generally what the different types of vibrators look like
This is a really good short clip by an Australian lady discussing all the different kinds like simple clitoris vibrators, g-spot, rabbits, couples etc.
Below is a table going over all the different types of vibrators
- Eggs and Bullets
- Pocket rockets
- Magic Wands
- G-spot
- Rabbits
- Other
The Hitachi Magic Wand is the strongest and most popular vibrator ever created, but is usually much too strong for a first-timer. However, body massagers have more speed variations, are smaller, and are amongst my favorite type of vibrator. The biggest benefit of this type of vibrator is discretion.
Super discreet
Technically it’s meant to be used for neck and shoulder pain, that sort of thing but many have found that it can be used on other places. The biggest issue with this type of vibrator is that they’re just too powerful for delicate areas. Think about it, if it can help by massaging sore spots on big areas like your shoulders, it’s probably got too much power for most little delicate areas.
The top 10 vibrators for 2025
Self-pleasuring can be one of life’s great pleasures but how do you know if you are experiencing it as well as you could be? Lucky for you I’ve done many vibrator reviews to find the best vibrators for women. These top rated vibrators will certainly help you to get to know yourself just a little bit more.
It’s awkward wink time
#1. Nea 2 by Lelo
Nea 2
The Lelo Nea 2 has everything you want and need. It’s super stylish and elegant, it’s vibrations rumble giving a deep and intense orgasm, it fits perfectly in your palm, is really quiet, is easy to clean because it’s completely waterproof, has all the power you need along with 8 different vibration settings, great for beginners and the more experienced user and comes with a 1 year warranty. Check out my full review of the Lelo Nea 2.
What we liked
- The performance is outstanding
- Deep, intense rumbles
- Super stylish
- Fits nicely in your palm
- Very quiet
What we didn’t like
- Nothing really and that bugs me that I can’t find a fault.
#2. Tango by We-Vibe
We-Vibe make some of the most popular vibrators on the market. The We-Vibe Tango has 8 different levels of vibrations, 4 different intensity levels (Low, Medium, High, Ultra) and 4 patterns (Tease, Wave, Pulse, Cha-cha). Even though it’s small, it has all the power you need. You generally need a big motor to make big vibrations which is why I generally don’t like bullet vibrators but this toy is different because it has all the vibrations you need. Even though it is super powerful, it’s really quiet. The power is incredible for something so small.
Yes it’s more expensive than other vibes but you get what you pay for. This vibrator will give you those throbbing orgasms you love so much.
We Vibe Tango
It has enough power, but are its vibrations rumbly? The answer to that is yes, Yes, YES. The lipstick end allows for pinpoint accuracy but the flat side side allows for more subtle vibrations, perfect for foreplay. It even has a memory function, when you next turn it on it starts off at your previous setting the last time you used it. It even has a low battery indicator. The light in the base will blink on and off when the Tango is low on power and needs to be recharged.
What we liked
- The performance is outstanding
- Deep, intense rumbles
- Low battery indicator so you don’t get caught out
- A bit cheaper than the most Lelo products
- Very quiet
What we didn’t like
- Nothing really
#3. Soraya by Lelo
This vibrator is absolute luxury. Check out my Lelo Soraya review.
What we liked
- The performance is excellent and you can have a blended orgasm
- Two independent batteries
- Adjustable arm to suit your own anatomy
- Very stylish. So many rabbit vibes are just plain ugly and cheap looking
- Even on the highest speed is still fairly quiet
What we didn’t like
- The price. However it’s hard to buy a rabbit vibrator that works well so if you find one that does, you have to pay up
#4. Happy Rabbit 2
Getting a good rabbit vibrator is really tough. They can be quite complicated little pieces of machinery. Seeing as we’re all different shapes and sizes and our special spots aren’t in exactly the same position for everyone, you need a rabbit that can be adjustable to suit your particular body. The Happy Rabbit 2 shaft and the bunny ears are adjustable. The bunny ears can be angled so that they perfectly surround your clitoris and the head of the shaft also has some flex to it.
The Happy Rabbit 2 is waterproof and has 15 functions, three for the ears and twelve for the shaft. The three in the ears have varying levels of intensity at constant speeds. The shaft has the same level of intensities and speeds but also has nine patterns to choose from. The shafts first three functions are constant, rumbly, vibrations, just the way I like them. Both the ears and the shaft have great, rounded vibrations that will travel well throughout the entire shaft.
Happy Rabbit 2
You can use the ear and shaft functions at the same time or you can just use one or the other. As the toy has two motors, one for the ears and one for the shaft I was expecting it to be a rather noisy toy. I was wrong, I’m pleased to report that it isn’t as noisy as I thought it would be even when on full power! I would recommend a bit of background music though to help with the mood because any type of vibration sound can be off putting. Considering how much power the toy has, it makes little noise. With all that said, I loved this toy. I find it really hard to find a great rabbit and now I finally have one and it’s decently priced.
What we liked
- Great price and is perfect for those who want to test a rabbit
- The performance is really good
- Two independent motors
- Heaps of functionality
- Even on the highest speed is still fairly quiet
- Adjustable so that it can better suit your anatomy
What we didn’t like
- The performance isn’t as good as the Soraya but it’s much cheaper
- Not noisy but not as quiet as the Soraya
#5. Lelo Mona 2
My first Lelo vibe was the Mona 2 and I wasn’t sure how good it was going to be. Although I was skeptical and thought that LELO was overrated with its simplistic designs that probably wouldn’t work as well as other brands. I couldn’t have been more wrong about the performance.
Mona 2
The Mona 2 was so impressive, with a wide range of intensities (which is more than a lot of other brands I’ve seen). The Mona is shaped to stimulate the g-spot and does extremely well to deliver. The vibrations are rumbly and deep, and are stimulating enough that you don’t need to rock or thrust it in order to get enough sensation. The pulsation and vibration modes are fairly standard, but the random mode is a real treat. The random mode is great since you don’t know what to expect next.
Overall, the quality is great and LELO offers good warranties on all their products. The Mona 2 is pretty much perfect as a g-spot vibrator! If I could only choose one vibrator to own, I would definitely go with the Mona 2.
What we liked
- Perfectly shaped
- The performance is really great
- Rumbly and deep vibrations
- Heaps of functionality
- Stylish
- Waterproof
- Big buttons for easier usage
What we didn’t like
- Price. I wish it were cheaper but considering how the product gets used, I’d rather pay up for quality
- Not noisy but not as quiet as the Soraya
#6. LoveHoney Desire Luxury
Love Honey Desire
The performance is spectacular. It has really deep, rumbly vibrations which will make your whole body quiver. The only problem is the noise level. It’s LOUD. If it bothers you you’ll want a bit of background music and maybe stay under the sheets! The thing is, I have to go back to the performance though, it’s great and the toy is reasonably priced.
What we liked
- Perfectly shaped
- The performance is fantastic
- Rumbly and deep vibrations
- Price. It’s great value
- Stylish
- Waterproof
What we didn’t like
- The noise level. It can be a turn off for some
#7. Lyla 2
Lyla 2
It’s a bit costly, but with a stylish design and enhanced features, the Lelo Lyla 2 is worth every penny. Cheaper vibrators stop functioning sometimes within a few months of use, so it’s not hard to justify investing in a superior vibrator. So why do I love the Lyla 2? A big reason is because of its wireless remote.
The vibe can be used externally or internally while using the wireless controller to adjust intensity and speed. The Lyla 2 is also rechargeable, waterproof and comes in many colors. It is expensive but it is worth it.
What we liked
- Can be used in public via remote control
- The performance is fantastic
- Rumbly and deep vibrations
- Can be controlled without the remote
- Stylish like most Lelo products
- Waterproof
What we didn’t like
- Someone who hasn’t used it before might find it a bit uncomfortable
- As a standalone clit vibrator, it works really well but there are better options. You buy it for the fact that it has a remote control and the benefits that come with that
#8. Kasai Aura
For women who are looking for an elegant toy like myself, the Kasai Aura may be just the one you are looking for. After trying it out, it quickly turned into the one I did not know I was looking for, and often one of my go to toys on those lonely nights by myself. But, the fun is only enhanced when you bring it out and let your partner use it on you! Okay, we better get on with the review before I get too worked up!
Kasai Aura
My Kasai Aura is purple, because it is my favorite color. The design is high quality and provides an elevated massage, which can be used on any part of the body. This thing is good for relaxing, working out cramped muscles, and that fun play time. That makes this little thing a good investment, and very discreet at the same time. Not as discreet as a homemade vibrator though. The size is small, making it a breeze to reach various parts of the body.
It is made with 100% silicone and the surface is waterproof, but I would not submerge it under water. It can be charged using a regular plug or a USB. This means you can always have it ready for your needs. It also has multiple speeds and pulses to allow you to customize your ‘massage’ experience. With 20 different pulse patterns and 8 speeds, you will be able to customize in all sorts of ways, which I really enjoy doing.
In addition to switching things up every time, I really enjoy that the motor is quiet. I can barely hear it, meaning I am able to enjoy myself, even if I am not home alone! The size makes it easy to carry without being noticed, and yes I have taken it with me on travels too. It has been great, and I found mine for less than $30! Let’s get into the pros and cons shall we?
While I am not brave enough to submerge this small, but powerful massager in water, I have used it in the shower just fine. I have also been able to use it on my travels without anyone knowing, and it is affordable, with so many ways to customize the toy that I have yet to use them all. I look forward to future sessions of exploring the options, and highly recommend the Kasai Aura.
What we liked
- Multiple speed with 8 options
- Multiple pulses with 20 options
- Small and discreet enough to carry
- Motor is quiet, can use almost anywhere
- Affordable
- Waterproof
What we didn’t like
- Not as good quality or stylish as other vibes but it is much cheaper
- Mine broke after a few months
#9. Magic Wand
The Hitachi Magic Wand has been around for a long time. It was originally designed in the 1970s for those recovering from sports related injuries. Before long, women found a new and interesting use for the magic wand. With a reputation of being a fantastic vibrator for over 40 years, you know that the Magic Wand is doing something right. Although you need to have it plugged into the wall in order to use it, the extremely powerful motor and two vibration speeds make up for that.
Magic Wand
This toy is for external pleasure, especially for vibration for the clitoral region. The big cushy head and nice design makes this the Cadillac of vibrators. It’s also very discreet so you won’t end up in a situation like this…
If you’re looking for a powerful vibrator with lots of sensation, the Magic Wand is for you. It’s great to use alone or with a partner. If you want my personal opinion of the Hitachi Magic Wand, I’d say that it’s a must-have if you’re looking for lots power and sensation. It’s highly adaptable, you can use it in a variety of ways, and it will become a favorite in no time! Read the full review here.
It also comes with a bunch of Magic Wand attachments so that you can vary your experience! After all, variety is the spice of life.
What we liked
- DISCREET
- Massive amounts of power
- Many different attachments can be purchased to spice things up
- Can be used on other parts of your body like a regular massager
What we didn’t like
- Too powerful for many
- Zero points for style
#10. Doc Johnson Pocket Rocket Plus
This vibrator is an improvement on the Original Pocket Rocket. Check out my review here.
Pocket Rocket
What we liked
- Is a classic vibrator
- Better than the original pocket rocket
- Will get the job done
- Good option for beginners on a budget
What we didn’t like
- The vibrations are too “buzzy” which doesn’t allow for deep orgasms
- Zero points for style
Some more popular or famous vibrators or note
Below I’m going to go over either great value vibes, famous vibrators, couples vibrators or novelty vibrators which actually work.
Lelo Mia 2
Mia 2
I’ve done a full review of this little gem of a vibrator, check out my Lelo Mia 2 review.
The Rabbit Habit
There’s a reason why the Rabbit Habit is famous—it’s absolutely amazing. If you’re not familiar with the Rabbit, I’ll explain how it works. It has a rotating shaft with pearl beads that tumble, and there are rabbit ears that vibrate. The shaft is designed to reach your g-spot, the beads are to stimulate the opening of your vagina, and the ears are to stimulate your clitoris.
Rabbit Habit
Take a close peek at this toy and you will see where the Rabbit Habit comes into play. His ears will be sure to stimulate your clitoris as the shaft enters you and the tip moves in a nice circular motion against your G-spot. This guy takes 3 AA batteries and has various speeds that you can use to give you that world shattering pleasure that you can only give yourself.
The only thing I don’t like about the Rabbit is how loud it is. I wouldn’t want to use it if your room mates or family were home. Even if you try to muffle the sound under the comforter, it’s still really loud. I read the reviews of the vibrator online and found mixed reviews. Some people didn’t think it wasn’t powerful enough (I personally like powerful vibes and think it’s powerful enough), some people complained about the toy breaking or getting too hot, some didn’t like the shape, and some felt that it didn’t do anything for them. Still, for every single dissatisfied review, there is an amazing one. Generally costing around $90, it’s on the expensive side, but you definitely get what you pay for and I think it’s an amazing deal.
Lelo Iris – The Lelo Iris is a good option but I don’t rate it as highly as the Lelo Mona 2.
Iris
Lelo Siri 2 – Sound controlled – means it vibrates in time to music. It can run for hours and is almost silent.
Siri 2
Lelo Ora 2
This unique toy is actually an oral sex simulator, which means that it imitates the motions of a tongue with fast flicks and seductive swirls. This is almost as good as your partner, but not quite. Click here to find out more or check out my Lelo Ora review.
Ora 2
We Vibe 4
We Vibe 4
This toy is not only a clitoral stimulator, but it is also meant to fit inside you to hit your G-spot at the same time. It has a wireless remote that you can use on your own or with your partner, so you can control the intensity and make it fun to play with. Read the whole We-Vibe 4 review. You can also check out the We-Vibe 4 Plus. Lelo also make a couples vibrator as well, check out the Lelo Ida.
Hello Touch by JimmyJane
This is the future. This toy can be used with your partner or alone. It is basically a fingertip vibrator that has the control around your wrist, and the simulators attach to your fingertips. This keeps the focus on actual touch, but with some added sensation that will make things a bit better.
Jimmy Jane Hello Touch
If you can’t wait for your vibrator to arrive, another option you may be interested in is a home made dildo! You can also check out my article on commercially available dildos to see if they’re right for you.
These are the best female vibrators, and the truth is sometimes we all need that extra push to really pleasure ourselves.
Other toys you should consider are vibrating panties like the Lovense Lush and kegel balls. If you’re really adventurous check out my article on sex furniture and anal beads.